I really like this guy, he liked me but, I liked him more. He didn't want to pursue a relationship because he said "he doesn't know what he wants". So I told him there was no point hanging out any more, doing things like we were together, cause the feelings ain't the same, so I am moving on to some one who does feel the same. He told me there were problems he had, that's why he doesn't know what he wants and that he is gutted but he understands.
i stopped txting him for a while then I saw him the other day he said he was going to call me and ask me to do something. I found it strange as he said he doesn't know what he wants, but yet his asking me out. I said ok, and he said he will text for further details.
he text me on thurs to hang out on friday, so I did, but every time we hang together, its like were a couple, we kiss hug, makes me food, chat etc.
that day he didn't tell me the problems why he doesn't know what he wants in the relationship when he said he will whenever he sees me.
he asked me if I have meet anyone yet, when I didn't reply he said he will check my phone later.
after hanging out I txt him that I enjoyed hanging out and it was just for fun purposes like friends. he txt back saying "next time we speak I will tell you my problems, but its stupid so I will only say if you ask me."
why did he bring up the problem issue in a text, when he could of brought up when I was at his?
did he want us hanging out to be just fun and friends or more ?
is he having second thoughts and actually want to be with me now, after I became blunt with him?
I think he is right. I think he has no idea what he wants. They want what they can't have so when you told him how you were feeling I think he started to want you. It also could be that he IS having some kind of problem. You need to find out what the problem is before you can make any decisions. I hope this helps.
Yer I don't know what the problem is but when I hanged out with him its like he dismissed it completely and didn't want to mention it, until I started saying that us hanging out was just fun and were just friends, then he mention the problem, and how after easter when he sees me, he will tell me. he says that the problem is "silly" and he won't mention it until I ask, when before it was an issue and he was happy to tel me before, I confessed I was going to move on. - 11 months ago
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