My husband has been secretly flirting with coworker, hugging, texting, posing for pics, late night phone calls, and even a secret handshake only the two of them know. He has never hidden being friends with someone before now, but he said he hid it this time because he was afraid I would be jealous. Even though he has no reason to think that. Is he attracted to this girl, is that why he's hiding it this time?
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10 months ago
He's hiding it because he likes her. That's my guess not sure completely. Your right the he has no reason to hide it and for him to hide it is odd. The hugging, texting, etc. Is not a good sign and if I was you I would get this figured out soon before it gets worse. Hope it works out.
That's what I'm saying. I am a really confident person and don't mind that he flirts, I like the ego boost that comes with it myself. I just think that since the 2 of them went to such great lengths to hide this from me, then something's just not right. - 10 months ago
Its obvious he has something special going with this girl. You might want to confront him about it before it crosses the line into cheating. Its really not normal to have this type of communication with someone, while in a relationship with someone else.
Honestly, I do believe there is a little attraction between the two of them. Now, I am not saying he is cheating but I do understand where he is coming from by saying he didn't want you to get jealous. You need to remain positive and try and not let your mind wonder in places it shouldn't. You know what I mean?
It's not the flirting that bothers me, it's the hiding it. That's why I think you're right about the attraction. And while flirting can be harmless, acting on it is very very wrong. - 10 months ago
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