Recently, I met this amazing guy in my class this past semester. I approached him one day to say hi in the hall, and we talked (small talk). As SOON as the class ended, he drove home and searched for me on facebook to add me as a friend. He apologized for it seeming stalkerish, but obviously I did not think it was. I gave him my screen name and I told him to i-m me if he wanted. He said he certainly would and he did later that day. I invited him to have lunch with my friends once a week and he came, and has been coming ever since. He has made me a CD. And one day after class ended, he went home and immediately sent me a message saying 'i forgot to mention I really liked your shirt today. It was neat' Now yes - it was a cool shirt. One he would like. I asked him if he would want to hang out over a break we had, and he said he definitely would. We saw a movie and had a fun time. This past week, another boy walked me to my car and flirted with me a lot and I think that made this shy guy upset, because later online when I asked him how his day was, he said he went to the mall and this cute girl tried to get him to buy hand lotion and she told him he had beautiful eyes, but he didn't buy the lotion.
I don't know. What do you guys think? Thank you for responding!
I think that this guy likes you very much, and you talking / flirting with someone else did make him a little jealous. The mall story probably didn't even happen, but he was trying to see if he could make you jealous. If you like this guy then you need to let him know and try not to play the mind games. If you don't think this relationship will go anywhere have enough respect to tell him. He is thinking that your friendship is more than just a friendship, so try to figure out what you wanna do with him and do it. Good Luck
Yes, this shy guy really, really likes you. All the Facebooking and mixed CD burning aside, the lie (yes, I'm almost sure it was a lie) about the girl at the mall is a dead giveaway. He saw the other guy flirting with you, which made him jealous. As such, he is trying to show you that he can get other women too, that he is just as attractive as you are and that he could, if he wanted to, go out with anyone else (but he has chosen you). A defense mechanism like this is a classic sign that a guy likes you, so if you like him back, you should tell him as soon as you're ready.
Thank you for the advice, mercutio. I appreciate it. And I hope to tell him soon. But I am so nervous. I am usually a very outgoing and friendly person, but I say the wrong things around him. I stutter. I can't look him in the eye for too long. I get very nervous. I think he knows this lol - 5 months ago
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If you're telling him that you have feelings for him, I don't think he'll care how nervous you are :). Good luck! - 5 months ago
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