ok so I'm 15 years old and I have a crush on my 24 year old biology teacher. he is drop dead gorgeous and amazing in so many ways. he flirts with me all the time and I always see him looking at me. I caught him checking me out 3 times and my best friend also said she saw him checking me out when I turned around to walk back to my seat. he always teases me and is always talking to me. every time we talk he looks right into my eyes. and one time me and my friend stayed after because we needed help and he just started deep into my eyes for 5 minutes until I looked away. a few times about 3 minutes before class would end someone in my class would go up to his desk to ask for help and I would go up and stand right next to them because I needed help on the same exact thing, and my teacher would help the other person and I tell me I have to stay after. also all my friends that he likes me but I just don't know. I kind of think he does too. HELP !
I think its just as likely that you're over-reacting and mis-reading his mannerisms/attitude toward you as it is that he might actually "like you".
Why would some "drop-dead gorgeous", "amazing" guy be interested in a 15 year old girl anyway? You're still a baby. If he was to try anything with you, he'd be labeled as a sex offender (plus jailed) and rightfully so because it's pretty pathetic to go after little girls.
Haha. no there's noooooooooooooo cute boys in my class let alone in my school. and I'm not even kidding about that. there's more hot teachers than there are boys. and I don't know maybe I am just mis-reading it but its just weird. like he doesn't have a girlfriend or anything and idkk whyy cause of how hot he is but w/ee. haha. - More than a year ago
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Did you actually ask your teacher if he had a girlfriend? Wow. Are you a freshman or a sophomore? I remember having a really attractive Anatomy and Physiology teacher, when I was a Senior in High School. Once, outside of class, I ran into a group of guys while walking my dog in the park...they were flirting with me and all that, then the one turns around and it was my teacher! We were both kinda mortified and class was awkward the next week. Student/Teacher relationships=no, no, no. - More than a year ago
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Yeah all the students always ask him if he has a girlfriend and he always says no. he hasn't had one for a while. and omgg that's crazy. I can't even imagine how awkward that must have been. and I'm a sophmore. - More than a year ago
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it would be an awesome experience for both of u...but can you live with yourself if you got with him? it all depends on the individual...some girls get involved with an older guy and do awful things to the older guy if things don't work out...are you ok with him liking you only physically? cause what if he just wants to sleep with you and that's it? if you're ok with that and won't cry afterwards then what the heck...but I doubt it...
If he is professional. It wouldn't matter. I could loose his teaching lisense if he even kissed you. I think he knows this. However there is a chance that he may like you. Or he has a fetish for young people you he is just plain horny. Either way, I don't think it is a very good idea to get involved with you biology teacher. Espscially considering he's 9 years older that you.
OK I feel slightly better that virtually everyone who has replied to you has offered the ONLY advice which is
STOP. Do not pass GO. Do not become another headline on Fark.com.
Seriously. There will be PLENTY of hot teachers still available when you're 18 and on your way to college where any contact with you doesn't result in Statuatory Rape chargesbeing pressed against him.
Man, sounds hot... don't do it. Don't do it. Don't let your teenage hormones get the best of you. Don't do it. I don't wanna sound like your parents but don't do it.
He might, but it doesn't matter. He would know that all he can do is flirt with you, and I spose nothing says he can't check you out. But I doubt it will go further. It would be classed as statutory rape, and he would lose his job and possible go to jail. Anyway, you see this with a lot of teachers who think one of their students is cute. Guess you can just play along seeing as you have a crush on him. Who knows, maybe you'll even get some A's for bio this year. Just don't play along to much. Cos while there may be no negatives for you, there are a lot for him.
haha oh wow... you just have to live with it for now. nothing is going to happen. older men are so much more mature. they would not lose their job over a 15 year old girl. but I kind of do know how you feel. my science teacher is older but not "drop dead gorgeous" and he always has wood every class, but I've always had a thing for my male teachers. I don't know what it is but I'm always fantasizing about it. I can't even ask to stay after class without cracking a huge smile. but you can't act on your sexual urges no matter how bad you want him. trust me...
He really doesn't fancy u! He is looking into ur eyes cause he is trying to communicate 2 u. And be very careful if any of ur friends or you told another teacher or someone at schoool with you saying he fancys you and that you wouldn't be seeing him again cause he could get maybe charged and put in jail cause ur under aged and his ur teacher! I would forget it its never gonna happen!
trust me, that 9-year difference is HUGE. you are over reacting. he is eye candy in a glass window. free smells, and you can look but you can't touch. . .
That is really dangerous... you wouldn't want him to get into trouble do you? I remember when I was in the same situation as you were when I was your age back then. You are just a little naive right now.
Really, this is a little worrying because he sounds like the type that would pray upon any person that gives him attention.
It is fine that you have a crush on a teacher but PLEAAASSEEE don't let him touch you in any way. You WILL get him into trouble because you are a minor. You will probably get over him in 2 months so it really wouldn't be worth it.
Don't do it...he is a teacher and you are a student. Leave it there. He could loose his job and he probably has a girlfriend if he is that hot ! These days some teachers flirt with the students and vice versa. It's just flirting...leave the status where it is... teacher/student. Nothing good can come out of because of the age differences. Right now just be content or glad or happy that you can look at this "hot teacher".
I'm really hoping you're reading too much into this... I agree with most everyone on here, just leave it alone. When you're 24 and thinking about a 15 year old it will gross you out and rightfully so. I'm sure you're smart and beautiful but you are one of his students and if he really does make a play for you he's missing a screw.
Choose a battle buddy to stay with you after class if he requests it.
He sounds like he is interested and his behavior is inappropriate. He is a grown man and should be more professional. It seems like certain people get those teaching positions so they can ogle young girls, I think it's nasty. He probably does "like" you but just don't do anything with him./
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