I have been talking to this guy for seven months and we finally decided to make things official . The other day we were making out and he pauses and says "kissing is boring" I'm like ? . Is he saying kissing in general is boring or kissing me is boring . I'm so confused .
Well most likely he was trying to give you a hint to do something else with him he just could not carry a hint correctly that's all you have nothing to worry about except maybe what he wants to do instead but that's what he meant its just plain illogical that he was talking bout kissing you being boring
After kissing bfs for a while (i don't mean like in hours I mean like 6 months of it) I get extremely bored. Try switching it up some or going a little farther. See what he likes and try to have a compromise. If he's making you nervous about kissing it's not worth it. You shouldn't have to worry so much about pleasing him. Remember to think about yourself too!
He's probably saying that because he wants to do more. Try kissing him a little more playfully to kick it up a notch, or ask him what he meant by it to see if it's something that can be figured out.
My boyfriend says this too now, that's because I know as soon as we kiss his hard so he doesn't wanna leave it at just kissing... After a few minutes, he wants to get more personal...
I think most likely, he was trying to hint that he wanted something more than the kisses he's been getting for 7 months, and just didn't really phrase it in the nicest way. If you aren't sure, you could ask him in a sort of teasing way, what he suggests you two do to be more exciting (since he is finding the kissing boring). It might give him an opportunity to explain whether he thinks the kissing style needs to change, whether he wants something more than kisses, etc. If you don't understand what the other person in a relationship is saying, you need to ask them directly, not other people, if you want to understand him!
Your very right. We actually started kissing after 7 months which lead me to believe he was shy. I guess I'm going to have to be more direct with him even though I'm shy myself. - 5 months ago
I guess he's being honest ? Sometimes kissing can get boring, which is when you tend to move past just kissing . It's probably not just you, though if it's really bugging you, ask him about it . What could make it not boring for you, etc .
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