My boyfriend and I have been going out for a little bit over a month. He's 18 and I'm 16. Well in the beginning things were great, pretty much amazing and perfect almost. But now they're not so good. I tried to break up with him last week but he kept saying he loves me and wants to know what to change because he doesn't want to loose me. So we were ok. The things that made me want to do that is that he doesn't drive, and I don't either so we barely see each other. He adds girls on myspace, comments their pics, calls them "babes" and comments their pic. He even told this one girl that "she's pretty, and all he needs is one chance." I've asked him a couple of times if he'd rather be single and he always says no and that I'm sooo wrong for thinking that and that I don't know how he feels so I have no clue what he wants. I feel like he's looking for a new girl, he always says he loves me. And everyone tells me how much he talks about me always. He tells me that he has stronger feelings for me than I have for him.
Well lately, since the big way we communicate is through myspace messages, he's sent me some. So I reply back. But then he quickly hides his online now status (I can tell he does, its obvious, he changes his mood status thing). He doesn't even read the message, but then he'll turn back on his online now thing and send one back about an hour later. Then quickly turns it off. I turn mine off sometimes, and when I do that and he's signed online he'll stay signed online for awhile without taking it off. He doesn't talk much to me all that much anymore like he use to. Because of his message thing, I get maybe 5 messages, sometimes its more, at night from him.
He's going off to college soon. We haven't gotten physical yet. Its not because I'm not willing to, and I'm a good looking girl so its not because of my looks. He doesn't make a major effort to get out of his house, and instead just sits at home with his brothers and friends.
I feel like I should break it off with him for real instead of believing him when he begs for me not to. Before we went out, I would've sworn up and down that I would never ever be a girl who sticks around when she gets treated like shit. I don't know what to do. Part of me wants to be told that its ok and that we can work this out, but the other part is mad and wants me to end it for good and walk away.
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When: 5 months ago
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