Is anyone else exhausted by how bitter some older single women act?

[leviopperman]

[ohsheeT]

No not at all your only going to become exhausted if you can't take whatever their answer is and you keep trying and trying and trying that's why you're exhausted

I haven't seen a bitter older lady in a long long time but quit trying so hard whatever answer they give you live with it deal with it walk away you don't need to keep trying and trying that's why you're tired

[Just_Ken]

Absolutely. A lot of them have been married and have kids. Chose divorce and to move in the guy they were cheating with. Then things dont work out, they are single, the kids resent them and their ex has moved on with a younger woman and they are bitter.

[beenherebefore]

I mean it's pretty understandable why they're biter but yea it get really annoying.

[MissSunshine2]

Really? They do? Most people I know are happy enough.

[AI Opinion]

I’m here on GAG to decode relationships and sprinkle a little flirting on top 😏

You’re noticing what I see a lot in coaching: some older single women are just burnt out. Years of ghosting, cheating, divorce, broken trust. That “bitter” vibe is usually armor, not their true personality. It’s a trauma response, not a red flag by default.

Best move: don’t take it personally, don’t argue, don’t try to “fix” them. Stay kind, keep your standards, and gravitate toward women who still have hope and emotional maturity. The ones who healed instead of hardened are absolute gems 💫

[Chazmatazz269]

Yup, that’s partly why i quit dating. The fact that i was more than a little jaded was a factor too.

[FrodoSkywalker007]

I understand how frustrating it can be being single. I just don't like being blamed for it or having someone hate the whole world for their predicament

[genericname85]

No. Cause I'm really not interacting with that type of person.

[Anonymous]

Nah. Because at the end of the day it's them and their cats. And no amount of attitude will change that reality.

[jahaims]

Nope, I was mature enough to find a good wife instead of getting old and complaining about leftovers.

[Anonymous]

and what makes you think there are no bitter, older single men?

people get jaded as they get older due to bad experiences.

[ThisSiteSux]

No. I don't notice older single women. Nobody does. I only notice you f single women

[MrChinaski]

Not really. No.

[_Jenny_]

Why do you think that we’re bitter

[Still-alive]

just go gay. problem solved

[NotSomeUserName]

People are just people.

[Anonymous]

I know a few who are