When I was 15 I began dating a boy who I would have never thought could mean so much to me. He ended up being the first person I ever loved, the first person I lost my virginity to and the first really long term relationship I've ever had. (I know I was only 15 but I'm 17 now) I can honestly say that I know he loved me. He did anything and everything to make me happy. He surprised me all the time and gave me that look that had "I love you so much" written all over it. I hung out with him almost everyday and somehow we just couldn't get sick of each other. We dated for a year and a half. Even though it ended 6 months ago he still shows me he loves me and shows me he misses me. I know this seems pointless at the moment but here's the issue. There was another guy during this relationship (no I didn't cheat).
This other guy I met in the very beginning of my relationship. We became best friends and I never thought to be anything more then that. Well soon after we developed crushes on one another. We almost felt like it was only fate that helped us meet. He was always there for me with any problem. He loved talking to me and we would occasionally get coffee with eachother. Well this helped destroy my original relationship. The two boys were friends and apart of the same friend group. My boyfriend hated the thought of us hanging out and felt his friend betrayed him. Because of this my boyfriend didn't trust me to the fullest and hated when I was around his friends because he was paranoid they'd begin to like me. This is what ended the relationship. After about 5 months of not dating anyone I ended up dating the other guy (the felt like fate one). Turns out our relationship isn't so dandy. We fight all the time and he is easily angered. I almost feel like it's parts of our personality that causes us to fight. Even though this happens I know he loves me (he waited for a year and 8 months). I feel like my expectations for him are way to high because of my last boyfriend.Who I seem to think of more and more because of all the fighting. I don't know what to do. I know I love both of them and they both love me. It seems the answer is obvious, which would be to dump my current boyfriend and be single. I can't bring myself to do it.I feel like if I were to do that it would be hard to resist my ex again.Either way I would hurt someone I love. what should I do? My current boyfriend I find hard to be intimate with but I love cuddling with him. Does that mean it's just friend love or what? I've always been the type of person that thinks way to much about things and never acts on them.
omfg! This happened me right down to the same group of friends,the fate bit ,the other guy waiting bit! I just had to let you know that your not alone with this one
Mine ended very badly though so I won't even tell you about that but if I could do it over again I would go with my heart and not my head so listen to your heart and not your head for this one
See I love this boy and he goes to my school, but the thing is that we broke up, then I got with this other dude. What happened was that the boy I was...
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When: 5 months ago
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