I've been in an on-again/off-again relationship with a guy for the past 4 years. It has been very strained because he is in the military and we are hardly ever in the same place. The relationship started out very wonderfully. We had fun, we never argued, it was good. Six months after we started dating, he got orders to deploy to Iraq. I waited for him for 13 months, faithfully. He came back, things were ok for a week or so and then he dumped me.
We continued to stay in close contact and even still slept together. This "friendship" went on for a little over 2 years with weeks and months in between where neither of us were seeing other people. Then, six months ago, after talking to a girl on the Internet one time, he told me that he really liked her and could no longer have any kind of relationship with me. Of course, I was pissed. He was professing his love for her after one month of IMing and she planned a trip out to see him. She visited him for one week. A few weeks after the visit, they ended it. I spoke to him once around Christmas but that was it. I had moved on and was over him as much as I could be. Then, in the first part of February, he contacted me again. He told how much he loved me and missed me and had changed. He said he was stupid for ever leaving me and wanted me back. I, of course, was apprehensive about letting him back in, but he really was showing me how different he'd become. He was sweeter, more attentive. He was all about me all of the time. And now, he's been in Kuwait since the 13th of May. He calls me daily and emails all of the time. He tells me he loves me. He's talking about our future and what we're going to do upon his return. But, I feel as if he treats me very friend like. I feel like he is slowly becoming the man he was before. He doesn't seem very interested in me or the relationship. He doesn't really do anything to show me that he cares. Am I just being insecure?
You felt jilted when he went for his online girl and you're afraid he'll do it again. A lack of trust is tough in any relationship, but it's brutal in a long distance one. I think you might never feel totally secure with him. If you think that's the case, you should move on.
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