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Best advice here is to not go against the parents. Your profile lists your age between 18 & 24. If you are 18 (I seriously doubt you or your boyfriend are), and he is 18, then you are considered adults and can date whomever you choose. If, however, you are under 18 and he is under 18 years old, then the rules change, and you MUST abide by the parent's decision. If you are over 18 and still living at home with the parents, then you MUST still abide by their rules - because it is their house, and the home-owner (lease holder) always is in control. If you do not like it, move out or offer to pay rent in order to be able to make your own decisions about your life.
As for your personal dilemma about your relationship with your boyfriend. There is a reason his parents do not want him to date you. Try your best to figure out that reason (you could always just simply ask them) and turn it around. Give them a reason that would make them WANT to have you date their son. I do not mean to get pregnant or something stupid like that - I mean graduate from school with honors, get a scholarship to college or trade-school. Get a decent paying job. Or, do some fantastic community service project that can can show his parents what an incredible person you are and that you would make an excellent choice for their son to be involved with. Sneaking around behind their backs will only bring misery upon everyone. Trust is a hard thing to achieve, yet is very easy to lose. Good luck.
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