It would depend a lot on your height, and also a girl's personal preferences. For example, I tend to like really slim, skinny guys (which is weird, because a lot of girls say they feel like they'll "break" them). One of my best friends goes for the cuddly, teddy-bear look, so, she likes chubbier guys. Another of my best friends likes the buff, muscular, bodybuilder thing. So a lot of it depends on the girl.
However, I think for the majority of girls, while they may take weight into consideration, personality is going to matter more. If I met a bigger guy and felt drawn to his personality, maybe he could always make me smile or laugh when I was feeling down, I wouldn't care that I was typically attracted to slim guys. There's emotional attraction and physical attraction, and when you're talking long-term relationships rather than one-night hookups, most girls are going to be basing their decision on the emotional attraction.
sweetvalle03
(Age:18 to 24)
When: More than a year ago
I myself, don't care if a guy has a great personality and can make me smile then of course not. However, I know some girls actually take a guy's weight into consideration when they choose to date them or not.
FMKCatie
(Age:25 to 29)
When: More than a year ago
Depends, for hot steamy nights slim guys usually have more to offer, but for serious stuff bigger guys are nice and soft and cuddly so I prefer guys with a bit of weight.
sadakochik
(Age:Under 18)
When: More than a year ago
Most girls don't care about weight?? I know that I don't and most of my friends don't. I like big guys and small guys it is just the way you feel when you are with that person. If you know a girl that is blowing you off because of your weight then she is not worth your time at all!!!
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