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Do you think it will last?

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Anonymous User (Age:25 to 29)     When: 11 months ago
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My friend met a man at a club who was having issues with his woman.she moved him in a month later because his woman caught him cheating with her and kicked him out. I told her to wait she has 4 kids and she don't no him that well.he proposed within a month of moving in .she said if he act right through the summer she would say yes.throughout the summer she felt something was wrong,she started recieving blocked calls from other woman bout him.which for some reason push her to hurry and say yes afraid she will lose him.Everyone kept telling her to wait longer cause eight month is not long enough .This is the first man to every propose to her.so she married him anyways. now she asking me all kinds of question bout the stability of there relationship.Do you think it will last ?or did she married under the wrong circumstances.


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Limey      When: 11 months ago
no, clearly not

just for clarity let list those red flag signs-

-he was in a relationship when she meet him
-he cheater with her with on his then girlfriend
-he thought it was acceptable to ask to move in with the new Girlfriend after only a month
-he proposed with in 2 months.
-HE PROPOSED WITHIN 2 MONTHS (I know I wrote that twice, but that's a really big sign of a nutter.)
-she recieved blocked calls
-all her friends told her to wait

okay that's 7 red flag signs of a problem in a relationship. One mades you think hard, two or three and you're starting to sit up and walk towards the door, and more than four and you should be running as far and as fast as your legs can carry you.

I know she your friend and all, but she has made a string of very bad judgments.

What should you do? Not much you can do, other than wait for the drama to unfold If its too painful (and it will, be like watching a car crash in slow motion) then don't hand out with her.
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Simple-Simonette Completely agree.
It sounds like she has enough issues to work out before adding a man into the mix. I feel for her children. - 11 months ago

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It all seems to be moving way to fast and she hasn't really had the time to see when or where she should the next step..

Tell your friend that she needs to have a look at where this new guy is gonna take her life.
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