Me and this guy had a thing together a long time ago. We never dated, but we made out a few times. The reason we didn't date was basically because I was completely clueless as to what I should do (I never had a boyfriend, he was the first one I ever made out with) and was very closed-off and shy and that frustrated him a lot. He ended up moving on to another girl.
After this happened, and after the initial anger I felt about it passed, I saw everything between us in a new light. I realized that every time he sounded upset or frustrated, he was just trying to help me be a more open, trusting person. And I remember sometimes when we were making out thinking it was a little weird for some reason (kind of felt like I was making out with a cousin or something) and that maybe we would be better off just being good friends.
So now I'm considering proposing a friendship between us. I'm sure I could because neither one of us is mad at each other and both of us know that. Problem is, I want to us to be good close friends, not just people who occasionally wish each other happy birthday and ask what's up.
Do you think it's possible to be good friends with someone who use to have a thing with, especially when they've got a girlfriend now? Is it even a good idea or should I just try to move on from the situation?
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