From here on, what should I consider us as? And also, how should I act around her from this point on?
I finally told her I liked her, what's next?
From here on, what should I consider us as? And also, how should I act around her from this point on?
1. Don't assume you two are dating or doing out. You're not - yet. All you did was say that you two liked each other. Also was this in person, on the phone, or online?
2. Now that you took that huge step on showing your feelings DON'T stop there. Ask her out, even if it's to do something simple. Movie, lunch, walking, seeing a sport game, going to the mall, etc.
3. When you see her hug her at least but don't expect that she will all of a sudden "be your girlfriend". You have to treat her like she's your girlfriend but don't expect the same in return right away. See how she behaves towards you.
Thanks for the advice. She is on vacation in Florida right now until tuesday, so it was via text messaging. I didn't want to miss my chance and wait any longer so I just decided to get it done sooner rather than later.
yu should consider yourself as having the same relationship as before you told her. Now ask her out and your golden
You should consider yourselves friends for now. The "we'll see how it goes from here" part of her comment says that she wants to continue hanging out, but isn't sure what's going to happen.
As for how to act around her, don't act anything differently than you normally do. Changing your actions toward a girl you like will only make her question who you really are. I know it sounds cliché but be yourself. Since she said "I think I'm interested too", she likes who you are, and changing that now would make her wonder if she ever really knew who you were.
It still considers yu guys friends. Just two people who also like eachother. Just act more flirtatious toward her but not over the roof. Just smile and make eye contact and sweet talk her. She how that goes. But also giver her space don't crowd her. yu two aren't together yet
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honestly,
for the how to act part...
i say,
just be yourself..
act exactly like you did before confession..
haha
Alright so I shouldn't act more flirty or anything? Just the same?
Sure a little more flirty is fine..
its the acting like her boyfriend thing you want to stay away from..
like jealousy and things like that.
OK, yeah I know exactly what you mean. I'm not the jealous type so I shouldn't have a problem there.
You didn't technically ask her to be your girlfriend. All you did was confess that you like her.
Ask her!
Yeah that's the next step, I just need to know what to do and how to act leading up to that, and when would be the right time.
OMG, I read your comment above. The same thing happened to me!! She was on her vacation in Florida and I confessed to her. When she got back, all I said was. Hey follow me, I took her to my locker. The way I asked her was this
I took out my phone and I said, "i wanna show you something, its funny" the picture that I had showed her said. "Will you be my girlfriend" She said yes. Done =]
Text. She's on vacation right now and I needed to get it off my chest, so I couldn't wait any longer for her to come back.
Wow! What a coincidence haha. That seems like a pretty good way to do it, but I was thinking this. Maybe ask her if she wants to hang out and watch a movie or something, and then when it's time to go, give her a hug and look her in the eyes and ask her out. Not very original, but hey whatever works right?
I gotcha, we'll see what happens :)
Act like your self, she likes you who you are!
and I think you guys are at the start of a great relationship. best of luck!
well you now know she likes you back.
just talk to her as normal. act yourself around her. don't act a different person, because she probably likes the real you and you don't want to freak her out. just talk to her like you would usually. see how it goes and remember ... never rush into it and you might maybe get her :)
love, the advice gurl :) x
She obviously wants your dick in or around her mouth...
Ok...rookie mistake. You're relationship is now over, but you're young you can find others.
ask her on a date
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