My boyfriend is balding. Should I dump him?

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He's a good looking guy but he won't get a buzz cut, he just wants to grow his hair longer so that he can hide the bald spots and that's annoying me.

Reeses-pieces777 · Accepted Answer

I would not dump my boyfriend if he issues with his hair. I would recommend that he start natural health foods or vitamin supplements that are known to helpw ith hair growth and such things. there are capsules sold in natural health food sotres that have things to help with alopecia (male pattern baldness)aka vitamin B, C, E, selenium, zinc, and silica-there are also chemical free shampoos which are less harsh on hair that he could use. as long as he's willing to do something about it right away, I would be fine. the cause of hair loss might be stress as well

Miss_Desirae · Accepted Answer

No, I don't think you should dump him over a reason like that... If you truly care for your boyfriend, then something like that shouldn't matter at all. All that matters is that he is a good guy and treats you well. Isn't it the person that he is on the inside that made you fall for him? If you only fell for him for his looks, then that's really shallow...

juliarachels1 · Accepted Answer

That's really a shallow reason to dump one person because of his balding. how cheap you are. You're a girlfriend, you should know how to care and help your boyfriend not dumping because of that cheap reason! You can give him vitamins for hair loss, I heard about Reloxe, they are best in hair growth. Help him!

jjjplayboy · Accepted Answer

If you really like him then tell him to not to hide his baldness, he can have style that looks good with his baldness.

John Travolta, Nicolas Cage ,Vin diesel , Bruce Willis and many more are bald .

and I bet you like all of them. aren't u?

palek · Accepted Answer

Yeah, do him the favor of dumping him now. This way he won't have to wait until after he's married to find out how shallow you really are.

crazyblue · Answer

Don't dump cause he's getting a bald spot! that's horrible! lol man, your relationship isn't gonna last much longer with an attitude like that. If your gonna dump him then at least make up some other excuse other then the baldness. Not only will you hurt him less but you'll make yourself sound a lot more "caring" then you really are.

grenn126 · Answer

I can understand why you may be upset with your boyfriend balding but if you love him enough then it shouldn't matter. You must not love him very much because image is not everything.

Anonymous · Answer

You are a horrible human being. What's gonna happen when you get fat someday? It's inevitable. Do you just want a guy leaving you then? Shitty and shallow.

boribori90 · Answer

you should dump him because he'll probably be better off without you

paigems · Answer

You must not like him that much if your are considering dumping him because of that...

thelittlethings · Answer

If something like that is reason enough to dump him then either it's a sh*tty relationship anyways or you're a really sh*tty person.

confused84 · Answer

Thats mean, don't dump him. Or maybe you shoud, who knows what could happen later down the road and you still have the same judgement. Besides, some guys look hot when they shave all their hair

xpxp2002 · Answer

I am too. That's probably the most shallow thing I've ever heard a woman think. He deserves a lot better than you.

MisterFluffy · Answer

Shave off your pubes and give it to him to glue on his head. No more baldness.

Anonymous · Answer

until his balding becomes really apparent it's his choice. don't nag, etc. but when there's very little hair left I think it would be okay to tell him to shave it off.

Anonymous · Answer

shaaaaalowwwww. all I'm gonna say  because that's all you deserve.

Felwa · Answer

If his looks is all you care about, then God help that poor man

Anonymous · Answer

I see that it is not his baldness that bothers you but the way how he deals it. He has hid problems and worries now (while unfounded) and you can help him.

Prettyinpurple · Answer

shallow! love him for who he is not what he looks like

TheoryOfAvarice · Answer

That's a pretty shallow reason to dump a person.

stevo · Answer

It's his choice.

Chronic_Leonic · Answer

No he should dump you for being shallow.

Anonymous · Answer

Shallow

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