Being neglectful is definitely more likely to get your broken up with. Being controlling is a close second
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If you're religious and are both supposed to have limited contact with the opposite sex then your other half having friends of the opposite sex isn't being controlling but expected.
Growing apart is probably the most common one out of all them, which leads to the others happening such as no sex or cheating. So I'd say that is directly and indirectly 90% of the reason
My ex was neglecting me but stupid me waited till he decided he was done wasting my time.
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don't see what's wrong with asking if the message has been received... because obviously bitches ignore and like to keep us hanging around like dogs... the silent treatment or treatment like I'm a second class citizen in this feminist world is UNACCEPTABLE.
MGTOW is the only way
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Same way women don't approach, don't spend, don't compliment, don't kiss, don't take shit, don't work in bed, don't call back as much as men.
MGTOW < what the fuck that stands for brah?^ there can be no equality without mutual respect - and that is something most women are forgetting with the excuse of "oh all men do this stuff so do i". ie. not feminism but you already know that ;)
Equality is a feminist dream. It can never be a reality because the moment women are liberated they swiftly manipulate their way to social superiority. It's not most women, ALL WOMEN ARE BITCHES. Admittedly, some are better than others, but even the most righteous woman has witchcraft.
Just look at the GROSS OPPRESSION we face on a daily basis institutionally and socially... we are 2nd class citizens in this age of equality.
second when we dont have the wealth, is Always been like this i do believe there are good girls but you know what? girls can be influenced even more than guys into being devious. that's society
You "believe" that because you're a feminist. Women should be stripped of their rights and put back in the kitchen where they belong. They are evil, defective and perverse... on account of which they MUST be controlled. This is a man's world. Women should never be given any independence... only be in custody.
Speaking of pray... almost every single religion, philosophy and culture in every corner of the earth has accurately pointed out the nature of women since the beginning of time...
Wow, what kind of women have you come across? I approached my boyfriend, I spend money on my boyfriend, I compliment him all the time, I kiss his face all the time, I treat him with love and respect. Just seems like you've had some bad luck and some bad taste.
Not at all. I've approached every guy I've ever liked and although I've face rejection like 90% of the time that doesn't mean I should start hating that gender lol. I don't know how any heterosexual person could have anything but love and respect for the opposite sex. What if you happen to have a daughter one day. Are you going to hate her too?
@Relentless_Hippie I hate no one because of their gender. I call out bad, and especially unacceptable, behaviour whether that be that of friends, wife, sons, daughters or even myself. I am quick to apologise when I'm clearly in the wrong & very patient with accusations, even horrible ones, which turn out to be partially or completely wrong.
Apparently, either women are never wrong, or there's always a 'valid' excuse (that would not stand up in a court of law unless the jury were all women).
Is my terseness too much for you to compose yourself enough to provide us all with the sane answer that we've all been waiting for for thousands of years?
And when I say 'unacceptable behaviour' (because I'm anticipating your response already because after 59 years of trying to love women, I understand the female mind) I mean 'unacceptable' to most normal, non-bitter, people (this is not about just ME¬and I say this because with a woman it's always about HER, except when she doesn't want it to be
@Alex88F Woman are VERY confused about the meaning of respect -- their respect for men is conditional and disappears when they think a man has done something wrong even when he hasn't.
Women demand unconditional respect when then never give respect EVER !!
AND, they think they should be respected even when they're sulking or throwing things.
When they sulk and throw, we usually start with patience -- this is respect.
Then we reason with them because we think (wrongly) that they have mental capacity -- this is respect.
Then we find out that they have no mental capacity and respond accordingly -- this is respect.
Most women, especially, the bad ones, won't even understand this post , but they will perceive it as a disrespectful (out of order) attack on women even though they have NO IDEA as to what we're going on about -- this is ILLOGICAL and IRRATIONAL !!
IF YOU DON'T UNDERSTAND -- CALM DOWN AND ASK QUESTIONS OR GET BACK INTO THE KITCHEN (joke -- but humour wasted as usual) !!
@optimaxim I understand your frustrations but I'll let you know right here and now you've certainly got me mistaken. I'm a woman yes, but I know for a fact we're all not angels. I'm all for people taking responsiblity for their actions and that little part you've said about women never being wrong or never having responsibility, I talk about that all the time. You might not know me, but I know me and I would ask that you not make any assumptions about me or my character just as I wouldn't do to you.
I've had both men and women treat me terribly, I have parents with the absolute worst taste in romantic partners. I've seen women completely stress out and single handedly destroy my father's life and I've seen men abuse and use my mother. While these people are absolute scum bags I believe both of my parents need to take responsibility in those situations. Red flags and alarms would be blaring but neither of them refused to pay attention because they're both emotional dependents.
@optimaxim I would never stick up for someone just because they're the same sex as me.
I love and respect all of the men in my life and men in general, I actually like men more than women on average. I don't know what kind of women either of you have come across but the women on gag and the women I here these men complain about seem like white American women.
Perhaps it's time to venture out and explore a different horizon. I'm Puerto Rican and Jamaican and in both of my cultures a man is valued and appreciated. I was raised to respect all people and especially my husband. Perhaps it's the white American female culture that is the problem.
@Relentless_Hippie If the cap doesn't fit don't wear it as you're choosing not to do and you're explaining why you're not a part of the problem admirably, so sorry if my communication was so clumsy that you thought I might be including you. Sorry again.
But what good men and women do about the idiocy which in infecting ever more men and women as time goes by? I've run out of ideas? Have you?
@Relentless_Hippie Thank you for speaking out. I really wish there were more women like you. It must be hard speaking out as a women -- even men are defeated by this conspiracy of idiots !!
@optimaxim It's okay, there is no need to apologize. Like I said, I understand your frustrations as they are valid, I just think it's easier for people to feel hopeless when they're constantly being smashed down than to remain hopeful but in the end, I'd rather remain hopeful. If you'd like I could inbox you and we could talk. I don't want to keep commenting here and filling this user's notifications. I feel that might be a little rude.
On 1 G I'm taking the "possessive" persons side. I don' want my bitch being hugged by some horndog. And I know bitches feel the same way about some whore hugging their man.
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Being neglectful is definitely more likely to get your broken up with. Being controlling is a close second
If you're religious and are both supposed to have limited contact with the opposite sex then your other half having friends of the opposite sex isn't being controlling but expected.
Growing apart is probably the most common one out of all them, which leads to the others happening such as no sex or cheating. So I'd say that is directly and indirectly 90% of the reason
My ex was neglecting me but stupid me waited till he decided he was done wasting my time.
don't see what's wrong with asking if the message has been received... because obviously bitches ignore and like to keep us hanging around like dogs... the silent treatment or treatment like I'm a second class citizen in this feminist world is UNACCEPTABLE.
MGTOW is the only way
Same way women don't approach, don't spend, don't compliment, don't kiss, don't take shit, don't work in bed, don't call back as much as men.
There is NO EQUALITY.
MGTOW < what the fuck that stands for brah?^
there can be no equality without mutual respect - and that is something most women are forgetting with the excuse of "oh all men do this stuff so do i". ie. not feminism but you already know that ;)
Equality is a feminist dream. It can never be a reality because the moment women are liberated they swiftly manipulate their way to social superiority. It's not most women, ALL WOMEN ARE BITCHES. Admittedly, some are better than others, but even the most righteous woman has witchcraft.
Just look at the GROSS OPPRESSION we face on a daily basis institutionally and socially... we are 2nd class citizens in this age of equality.
second when we dont have the wealth, is Always been like this
i do believe there are good girls but you know what? girls can be influenced even more than guys into being devious. that's society
You "believe" that because you're a feminist. Women should be stripped of their rights and put back in the kitchen where they belong. They are evil, defective and perverse... on account of which they MUST be controlled. This is a man's world. Women should never be given any independence... only be in custody.
Yeah , you're either gay or mentally disturbed. I am convinced.
I pray for your Mom!
Speaking of pray... almost every single religion, philosophy and culture in every corner of the earth has accurately pointed out the nature of women since the beginning of time...
Feminism is a lie
Wow, what kind of women have you come across? I approached my boyfriend, I spend money on my boyfriend, I compliment him all the time, I kiss his face all the time, I treat him with love and respect. Just seems like you've had some bad luck and some bad taste.
Freaking fabrication...
Not at all. I've approached every guy I've ever liked and although I've face rejection like 90% of the time that doesn't mean I should start hating that gender lol. I don't know how any heterosexual person could have anything but love and respect for the opposite sex. What if you happen to have a daughter one day. Are you going to hate her too?
@Relentless_Hippie I hate no one because of their gender. I call out bad, and especially unacceptable, behaviour whether that be that of friends, wife, sons, daughters or even myself. I am quick to apologise when I'm clearly in the wrong & very patient with accusations, even horrible ones, which turn out to be partially or completely wrong.
Apparently, either women are never wrong, or there's always a 'valid' excuse (that would not stand up in a court of law unless the jury were all women).
Is my terseness too much for you to compose yourself enough to provide us all with the sane answer that we've all been waiting for for thousands of years?
And when I say 'unacceptable behaviour' (because I'm anticipating your response already because after 59 years of trying to love women, I understand the female mind) I mean 'unacceptable' to most normal, non-bitter, people (this is not about just ME¬and I say this because with a woman it's always about HER, except when she doesn't want it to be
@Alex88F Woman are VERY confused about the meaning of respect -- their respect for men is conditional and disappears when they think a man has done something wrong even when he hasn't.
Women demand unconditional respect when then never give respect EVER !!
AND, they think they should be respected even when they're sulking or throwing things.
When they sulk and throw, we usually start with patience -- this is respect.
Then we reason with them because we think (wrongly) that they have mental capacity -- this is respect.
Then we find out that they have no mental capacity and respond accordingly -- this is respect.
Most women, especially, the bad ones, won't even understand this post , but they will perceive it as a disrespectful (out of order) attack on women even though they have NO IDEA as to what we're going on about -- this is ILLOGICAL and IRRATIONAL !!
IF YOU DON'T UNDERSTAND -- CALM DOWN AND ASK QUESTIONS OR GET BACK INTO THE KITCHEN (joke -- but humour wasted as usual) !!
@optimaxim I understand your frustrations but I'll let you know right here and now you've certainly got me mistaken. I'm a woman yes, but I know for a fact we're all not angels. I'm all for people taking responsiblity for their actions and that little part you've said about women never being wrong or never having responsibility, I talk about that all the time. You might not know me, but I know me and I would ask that you not make any assumptions about me or my character just as I wouldn't do to you.
I've had both men and women treat me terribly, I have parents with the absolute worst taste in romantic partners. I've seen women completely stress out and single handedly destroy my father's life and I've seen men abuse and use my mother. While these people are absolute scum bags I believe both of my parents need to take responsibility in those situations. Red flags and alarms would be blaring but neither of them refused to pay attention because they're both emotional dependents.
@optimaxim I would never stick up for someone just because they're the same sex as me.
I love and respect all of the men in my life and men in general, I actually like men more than women on average. I don't know what kind of women either of you have come across but the women on gag and the women I here these men complain about seem like white American women.
Perhaps it's time to venture out and explore a different horizon. I'm Puerto Rican and Jamaican and in both of my cultures a man is valued and appreciated. I was raised to respect all people and especially my husband. Perhaps it's the white American female culture that is the problem.
@Relentless_Hippie If the cap doesn't fit don't wear it as you're choosing not to do and you're explaining why you're not a part of the problem admirably, so sorry if my communication was so clumsy that you thought I might be including you. Sorry again.
But what good men and women do about the idiocy which in infecting ever more men and women as time goes by? I've run out of ideas? Have you?
@Relentless_Hippie Thank you for speaking out. I really wish there were more women like you. It must be hard speaking out as a women -- even men are defeated by this conspiracy of idiots !!
@optimaxim It's okay, there is no need to apologize. Like I said, I understand your frustrations as they are valid, I just think it's easier for people to feel hopeless when they're constantly being smashed down than to remain hopeful but in the end, I'd rather remain hopeful. If you'd like I could inbox you and we could talk. I don't want to keep commenting here and filling this user's notifications. I feel that might be a little rude.
@optimaxim totally agree
On 1 G I'm taking the "possessive" persons side. I don' want my bitch being hugged by some horndog. And I know bitches feel the same way about some whore hugging their man.
I guess I'd say I'm the crazy girlfriend. I just know what I deserve and won't settle till I get it
The first girl gives me the creeps lol.
I didn't get the messages I was supposed to guess.
women have thrown TRUST right out the window
I mean it makes me want to fucking cry
IT IS NOT LIKE THAT WAY... I THINK...
Damn , I guess I am the reason 😂
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