This is going to sound evil, and I don't have a better word for it, so lets get started. Hi my name is (unimportant) and I'm here to teach you about the wonders of dread.
Dread is the constant fear of loss of a partner for provisioning (whether that be financial, emotional, or in rare cases, sexual) dread had multiple causes, the main one being competition anxiety. Here's where the evil comes in. You want woman to feel this anxiety, you want them to be uncomfortable, confused, unaware of your standing. A woman will never try harder then when she is seeking your approval. This is when you will get her best (emotional, sexual, and in rare cases, financial) you want there to be a spark of anxiety and uncertainty. You don't want her to be comfortable, you want her to be afraid. Afraid of losing you, And you need to stay detached. This is why you see women who will turn down countless men, but then stay up at night obsessing over one guy who doesn't appear that interested in her.
That uncertainty is exciting, it draws women in for reasons I can't fathom, and keeps them hooked so long as the fear is still there. You even need to keep this fear into marriage. Never overtly, but through example, self-improvement, and options. The best way to seed competition anxiety is to display that you have options or the ability to obtain options if need be. That is why self improvement is necessary.
Never explain your methods because you will be looked down upon, but using these methods I've had more success than my richer, better looking competitors. I hope that I have helped you men.
Ladies, my purpose is not to advise against you, but to help each gender get the best possible out of the other gender. Women can and do use the same tactics against men, so don't wave your fist of righteous anger at me for sharing the best kept secret.