Hey all! So a lot of guys struggle for date ideas so I thought I would share my top 10 date ideas...
10) The Cinema
I am not gonna lie, I love the cinema, BUT it seems to be an open invitation for guys to try and fool around in the dark and that is often not the impresssion I want to give. Knowing not all guys are like that has meant some cinema dates have been great, just not the ones where I have felt like I am being ambushed down a dark alley!
9) Go Karting
I love anything fun and competitive... I am a better driver than my boyfriend and more gusty so I imagine I would win fairly easily at this :)
8 ) Attending a sporting event
I love this because it can be fun, but also because you get to see your guy for who he really is... Is he passionate? Does he want to teach you about the sport? Is he losing his temper when his team get beat?
This all depends on the guy. If he is busy then I will make an exception and maybe meet him in the city for a drink after he finishes work or between meetings. As long as it is a quiet location I find it can be a nice way to keep in touch until you get a full date in! This should never be more than a way to keep in touch though and it should NEVER end up at a nightclub.
6) Ice Skating
I can skate and I am lucky... I love going skating with guys, if nothing else to teach them or to have a bit of fun on the ice... Its a good excuse to hold hands and a warm and cosy hot chocolate at the cafe is always good too!
5) Mini Golf
I think mini golf is a load of fun, this is obviously more of a summer date or if there is an indoor course... You can find out if he minds that you could beat him... would he let you win? Maybe he will teach you if you are terrible at it! ;)
I always think dinner is what you make it. A guy can pull out his intentions from the start. I have had some amazing dinner dates and some truly awful ones which resulted in a guy asking me to meet him at a really nice restaurant and then saying I could pay, he had ordered the most expensive thing on the menu, drank a bottle of wine to himself and then asked if I would like to go back to his place. HELL NO.
I have however also had some lovely dates, if you really like her, take her somewhere nice. The effort is worth it!
3) A Show
I think a show is something amazing... it is difficult to dislike and you get to share a really good experience!
2) Something Educational
I think somewhere like a museum or a gallery is good.... I would say somewhere like a zoo but I do not agree with captivity. Some educational things can be fun though!!!
I like the idea of walking at any time of year, in the summer its nice and warm and gets the edorphins pumping automatically, in autumn the trees are truly beautiful and in winter its nice to have a walk and find an old pub with an open fire to put your feet up with a warm drink... spring there is that new life feeling that is amazing...
For me these are the best ideas and my favourites over time... yeah there have been others! Why not tell me your's?