The Journey Of Giving Up On Women

The Journey Of Giving Up On Women

No, it doesn't mean I'm going to date guys instead. I tried that and it made me uncomfortable but at this point I wish I was gay. It doesn't mean that it's because I could never find the right girl. It just that the odds of finding the right girl are very low. There may be girls I like who would go out with a guy that looks like me but my persona and my lifestyle choices isn't their type. There may be girls I like who would go out with a guy who has my persona but I don't look physically attractive to them. Or it could be that their personas are not the right ones for me. I have no time and energy to waste my time finding the girl who is the right one for me when the chances are so low. This means that I will start my journey to forever give up on relationships and dating women. The door is closing.

Yes it's mostly my decision based on the women of today and my experiences. My horrible relationship with my mom has scarred me and makes me not trust women. Most women are hypocrites because it's okay for them to be a certain way but if a guy is just like that then they don't want anything to do with him. I'm that the type of person who finds reasons to not like people. I will become a celibate for the rest of my life because STDs and cheating is on the rise.

I know that there will be people telling me why I shouldn't give up and some bitter women will go ape shit. But I'm not going to read any of the opinions. #Peaceout.


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What Girls Said 13

  • 1mo

    Hmmm...

    Well, I'm not going to be as cold as some others commenting on here, though I do agree with them. This doesn't sound like it was written by someone with a lot of relationship experience, so I'm going to assume you're bout 18-20 years old, and it that's the case, you are giving up a bit too easily. I say give it a chance. You never know, you might find the one for you. And I think giving up so early on in life might make you a bit miserable.

    But ultimately, it's your choice. More power to you whatever you decide.

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    • 1mo

      I saw a similar post a few weeks about about a woman who was giving up on men and she was sad and everyone was showing sympathy. This feels like sexism double standard.

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    • 1mo

      I saw a similar post a few weeks about about a woman who was giving up on men and she was sad and everyone was showing sympathy. This feels like sexism double standard.

    • 1mo

      @KatieLEE2222 no, I would've posted the same thing.

  • 1mo

    This is sad. You are sad.

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    • 1mo

      If you don't like my opinion, don't read it.

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    • 21d

      @KatieLEE2222 people judge easily and harshly. she hasn't been in the guys place, she can't empathize. both her comment and the guy's take are sad. cause judging solves no problems.

    • 21d

      @supernerd99 you got a point.

  • 1mo

    You're going to 'become celibate because or the rest of you life 'because STDs and cheating is on the rise'? You are aware that STDs and cheating are not so much on the rise as actually being reported and being kept track of now, right?

    The relationship you had/have with your mom is completely different from a romantic relationship (at least I hope so) but... whatever dude. If you feel like reasons like that are adequate to make you happy living your life alone, so be it.

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    • 1mo

      No they are actually on the rise they have been recording this information for decades and its actually on the rise comparative to the past fifty years.

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    • 1mo

      This behavior and the feelings this guy is expressing is actually biologically normal. It's part of the human condition and very common, men are conditioned to suppressed biologically natural feelings. When women behave like this its treated differently. Double Standard.

    • 1mo

      @KatieLEE2222 yes it is.

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    good

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  • 1mo

    Tell me about it. Some men are shitty too, they rape girls, or just use abuse and leave them. Fuck all men!!!

    Seriously, you gag guys make me laugh.

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  • 1mo

    Join a Buddhist temple ;do something constructive

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  • 1mo

    I am sitting in a cafe and looking around seeing all these men. (It is mainly a guy cafe) and envisioning myself going in there and showing them these comments. They'd be like GOOD ONE LESS TO COMPETE WITH. So go. Nobody is gonna miss you

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  • 1mo

    dude cmon man... Get a grip on life and push on because right now this is sad.

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    • 1mo

      Why are people being mean? Not everyone is lucky, some people have bad luck when things like this, and love can be complicated. Especially now days with so much going on, cut the man some slack. I've felt like him at one point.

    • 1mo

      @This_is_my_username

      Aww come on 😞, its not fair the way people are treating him, I saw a similar post a few weeks about about a woman who was giving up on men and she was sad and everyone was showing sympathy. This feels like sexism double standard.

  • 1mo

    Emmmm... You know when I was in my early 20s I didn't even talk to guys because they didn't notice me.
    I'd go out with a bunch of girls and they would get hit on, all of them and guys would approach them and I'd sit in a corner trying to look busy with my hands and purse and phone... It was a sad life. I often fwlt inferior to everyone.
    Well, in the end I found the greatest guy. He's goid looking in my opinion and has a great education. He's very understanding and cultured. He's a little weird just like I am! I feel so lucky. Most of the girls from back then have either gotten their heart broken or are in unhappy relationships and marriages. All this happened when I was 27.
    Don't give up. Your time will come.

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  • 1mo

    Well relationships/women aren't for everyone. Why would women go apeshit? I mean you are just one guy, there are a lot of guys out there. If you feel like you have a better life without having to manage a relationship then i say go for it. No need to take some poor woman down with you. There are a lot of guys out there that should be doing what you are doing but they don't have the presence of mind to look at themselves and do what you are doing. I say good on ya!

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  • 1mo

    You're giving up in your early 20s? What a negative world view...

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    • 1mo

      I gave up when I was a teen I had a traumatic experience with other kids when I was in school one incident in particular changed me completely

    • 21d

      age has nothing to do with it. one can have wisdom even as a kid. the question is, is it a creative and mature decision? to dedicate his life in a higher purpose that needs full dedication? it unfortunately doesn't sound this way... .

  • 1mo

    That's not gonna help at all. Running away from what scares you won't make it go away. Try to work on changing your perspective, there are all kinds of women around, much as there are all kinds of men. But if we all gave up on each other... well who am I kidding, the world doesn't need humans :)) but you get my point. I do not think this will make you happy. Think about it :)

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  • 1mo

    Good luck in MGTOW dude, maybe you'll find the man of your life in there.

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    • 1mo

      Nice shame tactic mangina, why mock him if you really don't care if he goes his own way. Someone needs to grow up a bit

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    • 1mo

      Well at least your consistent and fair to both sex. But many people react on double standards.

      But I don't necessarily blame people who become bitter, neither men or women. I can understand what can drive men to feel that way. I've seen many women do horrible things to nice guys. I've seen nice guys who at one point were sweet guys who just wanted to love become players over time because they got tired of dealing with the games women play sometimes. Women at times bring the worst out of men. I've seen it a lot. In this world or survival, women can do serious damage, especially since woman have more control over the sex and dating culture in society.

    • 1mo

      @KatieLEE2222 "Women at times bring the worst out of men.". Yeah, can happen. And vice versa with men's actions (players). Upfront honesty is the only beacon that I can think of to navigate/defend against this s***. Both in conversation and in action. It's up to each party to judge the results <-Always wary of people who say don't judge, those are often people that haven't learned from their past. And there are others who discard others as what they regard as "damaged goods", enabling and perpetuating that behavior. But again, if you were truly innocent, your story will add up and make sense. If you were the guilty party, what did you learn and do to rectify the situation.

  • 1mo

    Come on, dude. You're 18. I hadn't even STARTED with girls at that age, let alone entertained the idea of giving up on them. ;)

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  • 1mo

    🍻 More men who understand. I gave up when I turned 21 for my own reasons. It has been over 5 years for me. Giving up on women does not make a man gay. He just doesn't want to be with a girl or spend time searching anymore. Nothing bad.
    By the way, if you don't mind answering, how does your family feel or think about your decision? My parents and grandparents are very upset with me and keep trying to push me towards getting a girlfriend. Saying that I'm gay or something. So annoying.

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    • 1mo

      Tell them that relationship or no relationship, the reality is still the fucking same, we all die in the end, and technically we all die alone, everything we had ever attained or "gained" in this world, we'll lose it all once we're gone anyway, and includes people we have emotional attachments for such as in relationships. The real truth many don't want to admit is that more often than not, one spouse will almost always die before the other so someone is going to be left behind all alone on their own.

      Deep down everybody is alone, because nobody else can actually be us, they cannot feel what we feel or how we feel, they cannot think what we are thinking about, or even think like the way we think. They don't see the world exactly the same way as we do and they don't even realize that. Because everyone doesn't interpret and see everything and everyone in the same exact way in this world.

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    • 21d

      funny how every societal person thinks you people are gay. their brain can't go far beyond that. they are retarded... .

    • 21d

      also women's downvotes here are downright weird and suspicious... . what annoyed them that much in that comment?

  • 1mo

    I've personally been considering going MGTOW too, i'm not sure though...

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  • 1mo

    You've my support.

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  • 1mo

    Girl says: "I'm giving up on men"
    Other twats: "YEAH YOU GO GIRL", "I'M WITH YOU", "MEN SUCK", "TOTALLY AGREE"

    Guy says: "I'm giving up on women"
    Same twats: "You're a pathetic loser", "No one cares", "Misogynist"... waa waa waa

    Stop acting like spoiled little children.

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  • 1mo

    Like you had a chance LOOOOL

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  • 1mo

    here here! women are horrible beings, they exist only to torture us, we guys need better, and i hope you find your greener pastures. or that better thing.

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  • 1mo

    I think you should, I think a lot of guys should, and then leave them all to me :D

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    • 1mo

      It's not fair the way people are treating him, I saw a similar post a few weeks about about a woman who was giving up on men and she was sad and everyone was showing sympathy. This feels like sexism double standard.

    • 1mo

      @KatieLEE2222 you're right, it is. That's the way it is, it always has been, and always will be. Men don't care about men, women don't care about men, nobody does. Just the way it is.

  • 1mo

    You need a prostitute.

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  • 1mo

    To be fair , proportionally even more women have turned their backs on men. Women do NOT care if men go MGTOW.

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    • 1mo

      ... cont There will NOT be any bitter women. Women have 2 advantages over men. 1) Very close inter female friendships , there is a strong inter female gender solidarity , women tend to stick together , whereas most men DGAF about each other. 2 ) The vast majority of women are happier without sex , most women do NOT have sexual urges that men do , the biggest complaint women have is " men always want sex " Nature is cruel to men here.

  • 1mo

    Hit some weights homo...
    I was in your position and I'm slowly climbing out dating beautiful girls now stop being a fag and making excuses. TOUGH LOVE HOMIE!!!

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  • 1mo

    You absolutely don't have to do that. You are like a Mafioso who subjects himself to death because his urban life of crime is the only life he knows and working as a security guard in Salt Lake City is worse than being tortured to death on a meat hook in Brooklyn. Western women are a corrupt, diseased strain that bring misery and sorrow with them. You are addicted to The Life... easy sex, hooking up, hanging out, social media, "dating", etc. Walk away from it. The Security job in Salt Lake City is foreign born and residing Latina and Philippine women. At first, you might feel a little bored but then you will discover you are sleeping at night and looking forward to the next day. You will feel you are cheating fate. You aren't. You are just stopping killing yourself over your addiction.

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    • 1mo

      PS. I did this and love my Security job every damn day.

  • 1mo

    Good mate. You'll find a lot more happiness when you stop trying to chase woman/get their approval. Live your life and be content with who you are.

    As i say. It's much better to be alone and free than be strap down to a woman who ultimately does not love you but is just using you.

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  • 1mo

    I would simply say that at this point in your life your not ready. I had a psyco mother too so I understand that, that will take you a long time of self reflection to undo the damage she did (or at least make it manageable) but its within reach if you so choose. As for the rest, yeah things are bad but we tend to look at things from a skewed view when we are upset we see the negative more then the positive. Cheating is on the rise and it seems like its everywhere but statistically its only between 15 to 20% that leaves you at least 80% of the world population to trust. I would simply suggest working on yourself for a bit and then stop caring, once you stop caring you can do as you will and if a woman appears that your interested in you can try asking her out after all if you don't care then getting rejected is meaningless.

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  • 1mo

    Go over to YouTube and watch some of the Men Going Their Own Way (MGTOW) videos.
    You will discover that you are far from alone.
    https://www.youtube.com/watch?v=uwPFnvniA7w

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  • 1mo

    Watch these videos, they have more explanations on things like love and relationships and it really isn't what we all thought it really is:

    https://www.youtube.com/watch?v=4EPnhuq9vVo

    https://www.youtube.com/watch?v=ip_FehKz5LE

    https://www.youtube.com/watch?v=j2IPW02GtnQ

    Don't be so hard on yourself man. Just take some deep breaths and relax. Abusing alcohol will only further cause more problems, from health problems, or even get you into trouble.

    If it makes you comfy, you're not the only one that has given up on relationships and love. Many people have also. But whatever the case maybe, you just have to re-prioritize and pull yourself together and figure out what it is you want to do with your life if relationships and dating just aren't working at all for you. You just have to find some other way to cope, BUT without causing further damage and harm to yourself.

    Besides, once you sober up again, you'll be miserable, and then you'll have to drink so much again just to get drunk to try and numb out those miseries. It will be an endless cycle where you're rally getting nowhere.

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  • 1mo

    you thinking of going MGTOW?

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  • 1mo

    Congragafuckinglations more for me

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  • 1mo

    Welp, if you do leave, try and better yourself. Lay off alcohol or any destructive substances. This path is destructive in general, but at least maintain yourself. If you quit, you're really being an a**hole in their eyes because you are shrinking their dating pool and their chance of survival. even though in today's world they can generally have all their physical needs addressed without men thanks to machines, emotionally, there's a hole without men to fill it <-Mind, gutter, out. You know you're getting to them when they get emotional. Everytime MGTOW swells in ranks, a spinster is born. I know it seems logical from your end, they continually reject, so why bother. Definition of insanity, right? Well, I doubt you tried everything. Do us a favor, when a girl drops in your life who needs your help, don't turn her away because she has a vagina, she's human too.

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