I swear it seems like girls nowadays aren't interested in guys for relationships. They don't give eye contact, they don't smile at guys and they definitely don't talk to guys. It's like they are too focused on work/school, their friends or their phone. And I'm not going to try to talk to girls like that because I'd just get rejected. I don't even think they want sex to be honest!
I realize it could just be me, but I've heard a lot of complaints about American girls nowadays, and if I was wrong, I'd have luck with women at least once in a while. Sometimes I wish I grew up in the 50's!
So... is this true or am I full of it?
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I am 37 and I can say how incredibly different society is today from when I was in my twenties. Social media and texting has promoted emotional coldness, rudeness and intimacy issues. Young people don't know how to converse or connect with people anymore and they seem to have no manners! It's awful. I hear constant complaints about women from my guy friends and guys I've dated, that they are materialistic, needy or just plain crazy bitches! As a woman, we are afraid of mens push and pull emotions, their sudden need to pull away and explore the "greener grass", just as things are getting serious. You could be the most wonderful girl but inevitably, a mans biological urges kick in at some point. You have to be a strong, confident, secure person to be in a relationship. I definitely find that more men want relationships as they get older and women seem to want to break out and go wild (we reach our sexual peak at 40), so the roles seem to switch. There are awesome guys and girls out there, but you have to kiss a lot of frogs to find a Prince (or Princess!). As women, we need to be more in control of our emotions and men need to appreciate a good woman when they have her and stop thinking that there is someone better out there - chances are, you'll be looking for a long time!4