The last woman I had a very serious relationship with before now that am single, she use to be so caring and supportive in our first four months of relationship... Am not so broke though but things ain't so good those months but I was determined to work and be better again, she was helping. Suddenly, she started acting weird, getting mad at me for every little thing, we couldn't even understand ourselves anymore, we were like strangers. She started seeing different guys flirting, hanging out with numerous guys, she called them friends though, but friends that I don't even know in the months we've been together. To cut it all short, she said she breaking up the relationship that am not rich enough for her. The word hurts me so much that I had to work extra time than before and now that am back to my old rich self, now that am very rich enough to get whatever I want. Do you think it good to get her back? Or I should just find another woman that'll appreciate me in times when things get hard?
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Thank you all for your concern. I love you all... I don't wanna go back to her now, she's been begging me back but why is asking me back, probably cuz the cash is bubbling on me again. I want a honest die hard woman I wanna live a new life.
Should You Go Back To A Girl Who Quit On Her Relationship With You Cuz' U're Broke?
Dude, first, good on you for gaining back your wealth. That' fucking awesome and be happy you were able to.
2nd, HELL NO. DO NOT go back to that cheating shitbag of a girl. In fact, don't be afraid to specifically show her just how damn wealthy you are now and that she won't ever get you back.
In fact, I suggest safeguarding your money tightly except when rubbing it in your ex's face a bit. That means to live quite modestly and let nobody suspect your wealth, so that way, if a girl wants you, you can be sure they aren't for the money. If no girl around wants you for more than money, then do what many guys do in that situation: Life long wealthy single man. It's not a bad life. It can actually be quite great, so I suggest you go for it, and even be means of encouragement for many young men out there who definitely need older male models who are successful, single, and experienced with women.
Welcome to the world of hypergamy my friend. The fact that she ditched you in order to find a "higher quality" man pretty much shows she saw you as a loser and wanted to be with a winner. Why on Earth do you want to go back to someone who ditched you as soon as things get tough. You think that's love on her end? No. So you say you can get anything you want (I assume you also mean to say 'anyone'), but go running to some selfish woman who doesn't know how to love, but jump from cock to cock whenever someone has money in his pockets. Have some self-respect. You're 35. You should already know that the answer is no, before needing to ask it. Find yourself a more decent woman who doesn't quit on you when things get tough. Your last sentence already gives you the answer you know.
Every person will love to have someone who love them unconditionally; both in good times and bad times. It is just so frustrating to stay with someone knowing they can leave any moment when things go southward. Know you have to make a decision to love her unconditionally despite knowing her weaknesses or her goal? Is she worth getting back , can u live with the fact that she doesn't love you enough to stick around in bad times if the answer is yes then get her if no then move on and experience the beauty of being truly loved. Don't be scared of loneliness you can come over it.
If you weren't good enough, if she bailed on you once, what's to say she wouldn't again if you found yourself in the same situation again? You need to find someone that values you for YOU and not your money or position. Someone that will be supportive and someone that you can leave in when times are hard. Only you can decide what you want to do, but if it were me; I'd find someone else... She sounds like someone who only thinks/cares about herself... And that's not good relationship material. I hope you find someone better that will love, appreciate, and be a support for you!
These examples like his gold digging ex *can* discourage us away from women in general - if we let that happen. And that can be seen a lot in MGTOW. Furthermore it feeds into the popular saying involving these 2 (3) words: "women" and "gold diggers" in association.
@Unit1 if you going to judge all women by the actions of one, sure... But why do people always jump on the negative, never the positive... I stayed with someone that was sick and couldn't work for 13 years, took care of him, became his caregiver the last year of his life, didn't go fuck other guys when he couldn't have sex anymore... So if people gonna assume, why not assume more women like me? No far, easier to paint all women as bad, so men don't have to take responsibility, they can just blame women 🤷🏼‍♀️🤷🏼‍♀️
@Unit1 is that sincere? Or sarcasm 🤔 lol I'm just saying some men on GAG are too focused on trying to paint'All" women as bad. What does what his girlfriend did to him have anything to do with me, or any other female who WOULDN'T do that and might of had that done to them by a MAN? Hold me accountable for MY actions not the actions of EVERY female. Do you want to be held accountable for the actions of EVERY man? Or just your own? And if the answer, is just your own, then you have to show the same respect to women you want them to show to you...
Ms. Brain, yea, i agree with that. By now you must know, that I'm on your side. Too bad for those, who refuse to see it the same way but fortunately this ought not to be my problem. I keep loving women and get over my enemies.
Hell no, I don't see all women as bad. Even myself being a man I always believe men are the real pain and bad beast in life and women are the angels. Though we all can't be good, their are bad people and good people just that the bad ones has framed the good ones bad. We should be grateful if we are lucky enough to meet the good people in our life.
Find somebody who appreciates you for you not money. My husband never paid a bill our entire marriage until I couldn't work anymore and I loved him anyways. Then when I couldn't work and he had to pay bills he left me for the first hot young thing that gave him attention and accused me of being a gold digger. You deserve better.
A person, be it a man or women, your partner or your friend, that doesn’t support you through think and thin, and be there for you no matter what, and makes you feel bad or that you need to be something else is not someone you need or want in your life!
You are enough as just you! With or without money. If you are kind and caring, and you treat others with respect and love then that is what matters!
If you now worked hard and have achieved things in life which has brought you fortune that is fantastic for you, but it is not the he all end all, and it certainly does not change the person you are on the inside or the person you were back then when you did not have that same fortune!
Kick those awful people to the curb! Find and keep those that love you for you in your life and enjoy your life surrounded with them!
Nah why would you even consider going back to her, find a woman who will stick by you no matter the situation. If she didn’t appreciate you when you were in a not so good situation she shouldn’t get the opportunity to appreciate you now you are in a better place in life. Love should not be based on material things, she should love you for you not what you have or own.
Don't go back to her. She isn't worth your time now. You deserve someone who appreciates you someone who genuinely loves you and not someone who only loves you when you have money. She already showed her true colors just block her and move on with your life.
Do. Not. Go. Back. I doubt you were ever poor in this situation, even if you were, if she wasn't with you during your bad times, do you really want her to be with you during your good times? Her reasoning for parting is absolutely unacceptable. Putting dating aside, a human being shouldn't do such a thing. Don't screw yourself over by going back to her, you're better without such a person.
leave the gold digger to mine for her own gold ! you do not need such a woman in your life ! for you deserve better then to date a woman who is a gold digger and just wants you for your wallet and not much else ! thanks
She can go fuck off, dude she's a gold digger. You shouldn't bother trying for someone like that, find a decent person that will work hard by your side to achieve the best for the both of yous
Not really Money is not everything but it’s important in a relationship We have sent instances when a girl suffers and struggles with a man and at the end of the day he broke her heart.. Staying with a broke boyfriend don’t determine how much you love him And staying with a rich boyfriend don’t mean I’m a gold digger We all have our own opinions and believe
if u happen to find a rich boyfriend that doesn't mean your a gold digger but if u broke up with your broke boyfriend to get to a rich boy it means your thirsty af for that money.
No. You have to create boundries, and ultimately if you're hoping to be married you're going to have to recognize the red flags of someone that only values what you can provide instead of what you can provide and who you are. Marriage is for richer or poorer after all. Don't let her back in. You'll thank yourself later for setting a standard.
If you have high principles never let anything come between you and your principles. My advice is forget your ex and find yourself a new girl that likes you with or without your money!
Fuck no. If she broke up because you're broke and couldn't spend money, then she isn't worth it. She is a gold digger if your story is true. Drop her and find a better girl as payback.
You as a person deserve real love and don't have to comfort with someone who you have to pay for her feelings. Work on your self-esteem, money can't buy it, but is essential for yourself.
A man's biggest test in life, when dating a woman, is when he has everything. A woman's biggest test, is when her man has nothing. This year has been rough for everyone. The mere fact that she would flirt with other guys in your presence says she doesn't respect you. No one is worth being disrespected. Go out and find a woman who values you.
She doesn't love you or your personality. Just the cash you can provide. Cut her out of your life like you would tear off a leech. After all, that's what she is
