"Since Wednesday" is only a few days, I think it's a bit soon to say anything at all - I think you are over-analyzing, relax. He's been in Europe for a month, probably still unpacking his bags and getting settled. Calling him "too indecisive to actually make a move" because he hasn't made plans within just a few days of arriving back from a month in Europe seems a bit extreme.
Generally though, guys can lose interest yes if you show too much interest.
If a guy is really into you though, you'll know, so don't wait around for guys who show little interest.
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You sound so much like me... im always too open and honest... i leave nothing mysterious for her to ponder about... and it always leads to her becoming cold & detatched... TO ANSWER YOUR QUESTION... males and females alike get bored if you make yourself too availiable... because you leave nothing for the imagination... and it lessens your self worth...
But dont feel bad... no matter how many times im recieving advise to stop trying so much...
Im probably going to stubbornly keep doing what my instincts tell me and chase them away..
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Yes and no. I'll tell you the yes part. It's sometimes become really unattractive when a girl shows so much interest. It feels like to is guys that we need to always be talking to her Becuase she keeps blowing up are phones all the time like she is begging for us to talk to her. But that rarely happens. Now the no part is it is awesome if a girl shows interest but slowly and not blowing up your phone Becuase it tells us guys that she likes us and wants things to happen between us. But we also like a little chase here and there. Keep things interesting and you'll be just fine
If you have time please answer my question :)1. I don't see how you're showing too much attention. Maybe Im missing something.
2. No the oposite. Guys lose itnerest if you dont show enough attention. IM right now considerin whether to stop contact with this gal cause she never emssages me. i always message heri get the impression (if i read your details right) that your not putting any effort into anything and your expecting the guy to do all the work. and then your calling it your doing, when your not doing anything that shows interest at all. it doesn't work like that, you need to contact him and decide things for yourself
but to answer your tile question guys want girls who shows constant interest, because thats how it worksNo I love that. I dont like being played with and I would much ratber girls be up front and honest with me.
I would settle for a girl who shows any interest at all lol.
We like a little mystery
No not at all, interest means you care
I know girls do..
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