How many dates/time knowing each other should a girl wait to have sex with a guy if she wants a serious long term relationship with him? It's hard for me to figure out because I don't want to be too easy for him and I also don't want to make him wait so long that he loses interest. I'm 25 and he's 30. We have been on 4 dates but we text all day everyday and I feel like we are really close now.
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When you are ready and handle the physically and psychological consequences of sex. Time is not an important factor for guys tbh. You can make a guy wait, but he could always be getting some somewhere else while you are controlling the access to sex. I've seen it. Plenty of girls who are sexually frustrated because don't want to give it up. Sex is mutual and should not be used as a bargaining chip. I. e you get sex after 90 days or 35 dates or whatever. Time can't be a major factor as to whether you have sex with someone or not0