Should we just stop trying to get a date because everyone wants to date a women with curves? I ask boys out and they tell me no. One even said my body is to much like a boy and he can't look pass that. Im not anorexic I can't gain weight even if I eat nothing but Mc Donalds.
Should girls with AA cups just give up dating?
What Guys Said 98
I don't doubt that there are guys your age who are that shallow - there are also girls your age who are equally shallow.
But just because a few boys have rejected you does not mean that every guy would. I'd bet there are at least 10 (and probably far more) guys you know (some only barely) who are attracted to you, and would date you, but probably just lack the confidence to approach you.
And as you get older, many more guys will appreciate you - they'll mature a bit and move past the Barbie/Pam Anderson exaggerated ideal and will see you as more attractive.
So, no, don't give up. Rather, widen your net a bit, and consider dating (or even asking) guys you might not otherwise ask.12
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I feel sorry for the guys who reject girls for boob size. They are missing out on so much. There is so much more to a woman, both physically and mentally. In the big picture boobs are fairly trivial. The entire body and mind are erogenous zones. Those guys who turned you down are young. Hopefully some day they'll figure it out.
In the mean time, you're boobs are just fine the way they are. Please don't get a boob job just because of a few immature boys.
Here's an idea. Learn to throw a nice smile. A nice smile will get you much further with guys than big boobs.3
YoU should not be so obsessed about your boob size, I like big boobs, but I like small boobs, too.19
Don't obsess about having undersized breasts. So what, they're a little small. They're still boobs. Guys like boobs... no matter what size or shape.
And being fat isn't cool. Don't try to deliberately gain weight in hope of increasing your breast size. Becoming obese is unattractive and extremely unhealthy.6
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Proportions are more important than boob size.11
Give up on what?
I would say if you're giving up on anything, just give up on bras. Save a bit of money and effort there.
If you mean in being attractive, I can tell you there's at least one guy here who things the smaller the better.
The new rise of "curves" I think is mostly a counteraction against the skinny style of previous decades. I like girls who look somewhat "boy-like" as you describe it. I really do find it quite attractive. Don't waste your time on those implants. Just find me! lol.
Plus, there is a long list of gorgeous flat-chested celebrities, like Natalie Portman, for one. Wow.
It seems like the problem is that we seem to look for one type of body that every guy magically likes. Each guy is attracted to his own thing. I knew a guy who was wary of girls who were only mildly overweight, preferring much larger girls. He was basically on the opposite spectrum of me, preferring big boobs and big bodies. (Lucky him. Girls like you are increasingly rare.)
There's also the fact that it's basically politically incorrect to admit you like a girl with a thinner, boyish figure. You can say "I love chubby chicks" all day and collect your high fives, but boy do you get the looks of death if you say otherwise.0
I suspect that there is something about you socially that scares away the guys. Most of the gals I dated in high school were very small busted, and probably most in my whole life. Partially because their small figure attracted me (I prefer the smaller boobs). But I would only reject a gal based on her boobs if they were huge. That turns me off. Your figure would be fine for me and if I got to sexual play with someone with your figure I would give her breasts/nipples as much attention as any guy gives any boobs. (And love every minute of it. The best thing about a gal's boobs is the pleasure she derives from them and I am glad to help.)
Really, drop looking for a date for a bit and work on just improving your social skills. So that guys enjoy talking with you and hanging around with you. Once you do that, they will start coming to you for dates.1
No! Never give up, and don't rely on implants! You want a guy dating you, not a guy dating your boobs. XD
And that guy saying your body was like a boys was no more than an absolute jerk! Don't listen to him! XP
I know you'll find your SO! 100% sure! Just keep looking! :D4
Well, I can't speak for other guys, but breasts have never made that much of a difference to me. I like slim girls, so if anything, I prefer a smaller chest.
I would urge you not to give up, and there are plenty of other guys out there that would love your body just the way it is. Sure, some men attached a great deal of significance to large breasts, but certainly not all of us, by any means.
Just try and stay positive, and you'll find a great guy before you know it. :-)2
Size does not matter if a person is really in to you. Be attractive by being healthy, confident and genuinely kind and you will meet a good boy. Be patient, I have been up to 3 years in between relationship and the girl I met is worth the wait, even if the relationship somehow didn't work out well.
Keep this in mind, men are attracted to physical beauty, that is a fact. But good men are attracted to many other qualities as well. If you decide that you can only be attractive to men if you have bigger boobs, then the men you will find are likely the men who would think of you as just another pair of boobs. Do you want that?0
I actually don't care about boob size. Petite figures are my favourite (for which, small boobs usually follow). But I appreciate the variety to be had in the female form; the main thing is she is in shape.
Incidentally - and I appreciate that my opinion won't necessarily make you sit up and listen - I'd find fake boobs to be a turn off. I appreciate people who try and find a way to be comfortable in themselves. We're all 'imperfect' in some form. Accepting ourselves as we are and as we were intended is the way to find a semblance of freedom. People can be unkind to us, but there also has to be an aspect of ourselves that is capable of taking what they say to heart, for their nonsense to have any potency.0
Not everyone prefers the bigger boobed babe.
all about preference :3
just be happy with who you are ^^2
I think I may have some input. Obviously you heard from girls who are small breasted like you who got plenty of dates, so breasts are not your issue. The boys who said you were flat were just cruel asses! Guaranteed! So if you think that guy was a nice possible date, and he told you your body was the problem, say to yourself, 'F-him!'
And you don't need implants either!
How do you dress? With your body type, you can wear some sexy clothes, and no bra if you want! This does not make you slutty but confident! All of the sudden guys will notice you! Also, be a bit flirty! If guys say your breasts aren't good, tell them, 'They're so sensitive, they're amazing, oooh!' How about your bum? I bet in the right skirt or jeans it's awesome!! Tell people, 'I like my cute little butt'! When you talk like YOU like your body, others will too! For sure!!
I think you've totally missed the boat on jocks! There are plenty of those guys interested in you because you work out, you look great, and are I think probably pretty strong. Let your physical strength channel into your inner strength!! Say, 'I'm healthy!!'
I hope this helps you out, just trying to support a woman who is very pretty, skinny and all!!1
My friend is a gymnast who represented Australia at the Olympics. Do you she gives a damn what a guy thinks of her breast size? She has a wonderful husband who provides for her so well she doesn't hae to work (but she does because she likes to have her own money to spend on shoes, dresses etc) You can't force a guy to like your body, if that's not what he's into. There are guys out there who would love your body, you just haven't met them yet. I have another friend and a work mate who wouldn't fill an A. The one who is actively single? Guys fawn over her, literally tripping themselves up. Like they are so intimidated because of the way she holds herself. I'm good friends with her (that's how I know all the insider info). FYI I'm dating a girl who would be this size (I haven't seen them up close yet, but I know what I'm getting into). For me I prefer thin/petite because to me it's a healthier way to be. Learn to be confident and comfortable about yourself - it might be your attitude rather than your looks.0
well let me give you another option that might help you.. there are many girls who have the same thing flat boobs but still they are the most demanded girls and whats the reason.. its because they worked on there other parts.. god might take something from you but would give you something else better.. so work on your looks your face good makeup (not too much ) your hair great hair styles and the ways you dress look for something sexy..
you just try looking in the internet.. guys dating models even though you dont know her front from her back but coz she's hot like hell
think right before doing a decision that you will regret all your life0
I still find Ivana Milicevic pretty sexy.
Miss, try this..
As far as AA cups? I like big breasts. But if the girl I loved had small AA's those were the breasts that came on the girl I loved. I go by girl first... breasts second. There is someone out there for you darling.0
You'd be surprise to know how many guys actually prefer flat chests. I know it may seem like a majority want nothing but tits and ass but the reality is different.2
I think that size is A W E S O M E <3 <3
Implants or not is your choice young lady but there are those like me that dig this size :) <30
Natural > fake. plus you don't get to have some guy in a mask cutting and mutilating your body, leaving you scarred.0
No. Please don't give up, or get implants. I've already seen replies to that effect.
Not going to perv or creep on you, but your body sounds perfect. You're going to find a guy who appreciates what you have.1
Nope. There's someone out there who will appreciate you for who you are. Don't look so hard. He'll come. Just focus on being happy as you are.1
AA are fine by me.
You're probably just having bad luck. Much like women in general don't need a perfect-sized penis, men in general don't care as much about breast size as various media insinuate.
Most people have trouble getting dates. Don't let those guys discourage you; they're a drop of water in the whole ocean of men.2
Yes, You should Give up. NOT BECAUSE YOU HAVE AAs, But because you are too shallow to accept reality. If you cannot love yourself in the first place, no one can ever satisfy you with anything. Last I know, Endocrinologists and Dieticians are cheaper than Plastic surgeons. And you are what 18? Even if you are 24, there is still time for growth. If there is some harmonal / metabolic problems, the doctors will rectify that. And for your kind info, FAKE BOOBS ARE CERTIFIED TURNOFFS (You can search and check some G@G questions). AAs are not. at least you can give it a few years before you let someone cut open your skin and stuff it up with silicons.0
no find a guy who likes small boobs LOL2
Ok, tbh I like some of the curvyness and all, but that is not a big factor for me if and when liking or asking out a girl. I actually like a girl who has AA cups. I don't know if anyone has told you that you are beautiful but you are. Never let anyone tell you and make you believe otherwise. You should be proud with who you are and what you have. Stay confident and be proud. It's what matters on the inside, not the outside. The outside is a bonus. Having a busty butt or nice boobs is a bonus. The point is don't listen to what that guy told you and don't give up.0
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What Girls Said 38
Fuck no. You shouldn't base your entire worth on the size of your boobs. You have more to offer than that. If you think that guys only care about boobs when it comes to getting into a relationship with a girl, well, you're wrong. And actually, you're also slightly immature for thinking that, too. The guys who are like that are extremely shallow and not worth dating anyway. They're also in the minority.
You have the choice to not get breast implants. So, getting breast implants isn't your only choice. You don't have to get breast implants in order to find someone who thinks you're attractive. And wouldn't it be nicer knowing that they like you FOR YOU, and not for your implants?
I say, get rid of this self-defeating attitude. It's probably what's keeping you from finding someone who likes you. Find the things that you actually DO like about yourself, and focus on them. Become a bit more confident. If you act like nobody will ever like you, then yeah, nobody probably will. Why would anyone like you when you can't even like yourself? Sorry if it's a bit harsh, it's just my opinion.
I'm an A-cup myself and that hasn't stopped me. Not many guys have shown interest in me IRL, but I won't let that get me down. I won't base my worth on what other people think about me.5
You should stop comparing yourself to other people. Men like all body types. There is somone for everyone.
Im usually an A cup. when my fiance first met me I had no boobs at all but i recently put on a couple of pounds these past couple of month and now I am a B cup and it feels weird and uncomfortable to me so i plan on loosing the pounds and getting back to my A cup as well as smaller stomach. My fiance fell in love with me when i was an A cup and he still loves me.
There is a girl in my class who is super athletic so she totally lost her boobs but she has a fiance too and everyone met him when we all went to this party.
Also i have a friend who is also super athletic, her body is mostly musscle and she is currently in a relationship with a nice guy. She ran track in higschool and college.
Im not really athletic, just all the women on my moms side are really skinny petite women so its genetics for me.
boobs are not what makes a woman a woman. AA cups can still breast feed their children.
Kate Hudson is a popular flat chested actress who many men find attractive. she is married and has children
Keira Knightly too is married
Kelly Rippa is a famous talk show host and is married with children. She often makes jokes about her flat chest and many men find her to be attractive
I do not see too many boobs just like the majority of people except for on swimsuit modles in magazines and celebrities and the majority of them have breast implants so i found myself comparing my boobs to them too. I always wondered if my nipples looked weird becasue i had only seen Kate Winsletts nipples in the movie Titanic and many guys seem to think her boobs look great. Well i found this website called http://www.007b.com/ which is dedicated to helping women love their bodies. The website actually shows what real womens boobs looks like non-sexualized and it tells you what is normal and abnormal. It also has many real women and mens opinions and concerns.2
I have AA cups.
What people don't realize is that, yes, you're going to face a lot of rejection and contempt because of it. Like you, I've had men tell me that they aren't attracted to my body since it's shaped like a 14 year old boy's. BUT if you have a pretty face, you can bypass that. If you have a booty, that's a bonus. And if you have a dazzling personality with a great sense of humour, you can charm your way into a guy's heart. ;)
Having dart tits ain't the end all. Sure we can't wear certain clothes, but we can still look killer in others. Focus on what you DO have, rather than moping about what you don't. :)3
Not all guys are like that, some guys like women that have breasts that aren't that big. Be happy and thankful with what God gave you and don't obsess over having big breasts trust me it isn't the best thing in the world. I'm a C cup, my mom is a cup higher than me, and when I get older I might have back pain who knows. But anywho breasts come in all different shapes and sizes and they are all beautiful, so don't stress it please.2
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As a fellow female with a high metabolism and small chest, I don't think you should ever give up on yourself, nor get implants. Someone has told me before that my body is kinda boyish, while some of my curvier friends said that they wished that they were more petite like me. I've learned to be content with my stature. Conventional beauty is nonsense. Not all guys want a girl with large breasts and the guys that only go after that are not worth your time, nor are the guys that criticize your body. There are women of all shapes and cup sizes who are happily dating or married. You are probably just looking for guys in the wrong places, and sometimes the right guy comes around when you least expect it.0
I'm AA and lots and lots of guys hit on me.
Yeah, I obsessed about my no boobs like crazy, especially when I was like 14 or so.
I'm 19 now, still no boobs, but everything else is in tip top working order.
Nice butt, super smile, open and accessible.
Guys like me! :)
My boobs will never be big, I could care less.
My mom's the same way, small boobs, no cleavage, but a known hottie @ 41. XD
I like my bod now more than ever.1
I am a part time fit model.
My height = five foot eight and one half
My weight = 88 pounds
Men luuuuuuurve the idea of my body in PUBLIC, but
NOT the look or feel of my body when I am naked with
them in PRIVATE.
Despite this, or perhaps because of it, I get much more
than my fair share of male attention and dates, as I
instantly stand out from the 85% MAJORITY of curvy
and overweight women.
While I am still subject to 24/7 comments about my weight,
I have finally learned to embrace my body while making
MUCH money out of it.
Peace with smiles xo0
implants are really expensive and kind of gross if you think about it there are lots of guys who ONLY like small boobs... like my boyfriend. except since I started birth control my boobs are now a B and I'm kinda pissed I actually liked them smaller :(0
no. some guys like that.1
you say you weigh 100 lbs try gaining 20lbs that will put you up to at leasts an A cup. and if that doesn't work then maybe think about implants, I have small tits but i always here guys hate them and my fathers childhood friend died from infection after getting them, pretty scary.0
Different people have different tastes. Some men like smaller boobs, some like bigger boobs and (I think the vast majority) just like boobs in general. lol. Just be who you are and have confidence in yourself. That is the most attractive thing of all. :)1
Honey No! Don't lie to yourself, do you really thj k men worry about how skinny you are, your breast size, hair color, etc? No they shouldn't and obviously for you to think you should change yourself to have guys attract you sounds so silly! Obviously those men who have forgotten about you are jackasses, they shouldint judge you on what your heavenly father gave to you. You should be proud of what you have. Think, some people dont have hair, some have growth problems, some don't have breast at all, and some have syndromes that jesus gave them, FOR A REASON. But they still all found love, when the right person comes along you will know they didn't care about your looKs. They cafe about your heart.0
Um no. I'm flat but still get dates. Some jerks will compliment me because my curves are basically thanks to my ass. However there are guys who like skinny girls. You don't need implants to be hot. I'm a size one-two around my waist and wear an a-cup bra size. Just because the kar-trashians are somewhat popular right now doesn't mean you need to be overweight.0
Don't be so melodramatic. There are tons of guys who like a slim and athletic build, plenty who like small boobs. Are you really considering having surgery to get a date? You actually want to attract someone who cares more about the fat stored on your chest than you as a person? If that's what you want them go mutilate your body to get a man, have fun with that I'm sure it will all come up roses for you.1
No, do not become artificial. One you have to LOVE YOURSELF before you can date anyone , two, you dont find a guy to date, he finds you, three if he's only going off of your phyisical , he isn't for you. Just wait it out massage your boobs and stop eating Mickey D's. Know your worth before you date. Best of luck0
Having small boobs is wonderful actually. I do part-time modelling, and A cups simply make high fashion look better. Photographers find it easier to photograph too. Small boobs look bettrr in all kinds of outfits. Anyway you don't need other people's opinions to make you feel attractive, I'm sure you look great so be proud of your fashion versatile body!0
I am a dancer, and I have no boobs. Like none at all, but I want a guy who doesn't judge me just because of what size my boobs are. I want a guy who sees personality first. Body second.1
nope everyone needs love1
The MHOs suck.0
Just be yourself, show then how nice you are, and don't care about those stupids comments because if a guy really likes you he will go out with you even if you are ugly0
No having a pretty face helps0
Fuck them and the dudes that normally want the bitches with big asses and titties usually have little dicks so hey0
I have AA cups. I like them because I know guys don't like me for only my boobs, and the guys I date like me for me. If you're wanting to base having a boyfriend simply because of how he views your boobs, then you have bigger things to worry about.0
Sweetheart, I'm 16, size 32 A. I have a boyfriend. It does NOT MATTER.0
Try a push up bra, it helped me.0
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