Want to try some new things with my boyfriend for sex to spice things up guys what would you want to try with your girlfriend to keep it interesting?

[Anonymous]

Guys what are somethings you would do or want to try with your girlfriend to keep things interesting for sex? like more teasing before or new things that you just haven't done with her yet and girls what are somethings you have done with your boyfriend to keep it interesting? usually me and my boyfriend stick to the basics but last time he wanted me on top and I haven't done that to much maybe twice now we tend to tease a lot to get in the mood or when we are in public we try to stick to very casual teasing or if we are in his car we will make out a lot first to get more in the mood but I want to try some more new things with me but seeing as I am shy I don't know how to go about it also I just don't know to much of this stuff so I don't know any new moves/positions that I could do I figured since he's been busy with his exams the past little while here that maybe after school I would just go and meet him by his car and surprise him or just try going to his house after school he showed some interest in new moves/positions the other week by having me on top and before that he took my legs up around his neck and shoulders so I thought maybe he might be looking to try new things with sex so any ideas on what I could do? I want to do this as soon as I can this week so the help would be appreciated I know he's probably been stressed with the exams so I was thinking it could be a good way of taking some stress off for a night.

Thanks.

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I should also mention when I was on top I felt nervous like I would screw up any tips for when I`m on top that will help me feel a bit more comfortable? is there a certain way to do it when on top?

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Sorry like I said I just don't often try new things with it but also don't want either of us to be bored

[Anonymous]

Take him into the shower was him drop to your knees and blow his mind with amazing oral then just tell him to give you a facial. It will clear his mind and it will be the best release of stress he will ever get

[Virulent]

Go with the flow. You worry too much. Let him introduce the ideas.

[Asker]

Cause that was one of the times he's done it he doesn't try new very often but thanks

[Anonymous]

Well if your going to let him try anal on you how about you trying snail on him? A prostate massage or something like that. Some guys love it

[Asker]

Hmm could be fun thanks for the idea

[Opinion Owner]

If a guy is open to it they seem to have amazing orgasms. My hubby loves them

[Asker]

Good to know I think he will be thanks

[playdatesx]

I see this is a question for the vanilla folk of the internet. I will get going now, then. *turns around and walks off*

[Asker]

Haha then why did you click it?

[playdatesx]

I thought I'd have some tasty ideas for you and your partner to try, but then I read the description and was like, oh, nvm.

[Asker]

Oh I see may I ask why you thought no after you read? jw

[playdatesx]

You and your partner are clearly having some very vanilla sex xD I don't think my ideas are for you guys.

[Asker]

Haha I see yeah we have only tried some new things a few times but I think we have got comfortable with what we usually do so I`m just looking to see what I could do with him so we won't get bored

[playdatesx]

Oh trust me, there is SOO much you can do to keep your sex life spontaneous for the rest of your life, but it boils down to the fact of how far you're willing to go and what you're comfortable with. Because repetitive intercourse gets boring.

[Asker]

Exactly well honestly I`m open minded and willing to try a lot I just wonder how he will respond to it

[playdatesx]

Ah I see. Well, this is the matter of sitting down with your boyfriend or laying by him and talking non-sexually about the things you two want to try. Make a checklist, even (I've done that before). Get a little kinky, it'll be fun :D maybe bring a little bit of bondage into the game (wrists tied behind the back), some ice cubes, or maybe try having someone be blind folded!

You just have to talk to your boyfriend about it. Make a list. Talk about where your guys' current limits lie at. Yeah. Communication :)

[Asker]

Hmm I think that could be really fun and those are some good ideas and I think we could deff use the bondage time together I will for sure do this thank you that is really helpful :)

[playdatesx]

Of course, any time :) remember, if you start bringing kinks into your sex life, to make a safeword, just in case. It's a must! (OR ELSE YOU'LL DIE; just kidding.)

[Asker]

Lol I know what you mean with it being new things it could get a bit intense or uncomfortable for a bit so will make sure to do that lol :)

[Asker]

See you were able to help a bit after all :)

[playdatesx]

Hahaha I didn't know exactly what to say, but I guess I did it xD good luck and have fun!

[Asker]

Haha yes you did and thanks will try :)

[Anonymous]

Eat out his ass. I love it when my girl does tat to me.

[Asker]

Hmm I never would have thought of it will try it I think thanks

[Opinion Owner]

he'll love it. has he ever ate out your ass?

[Asker]

Actually come to think of it he hasn't eaten me out before but yeah I think your right about him loving it

[Opinion Owner]

you should have him eat your ass too, i love eating ass and i usually get my hardest after eating out ass or pussy.

[Asker]

Yeah he`s one of the few who doesn't try to eat me out first lol but I will try this I think it could be fun for us

[Opinion Owner]

hope it is, have fun.

[Asker]

I hope so to thanks

[Anonymous]

Let him put it in your butt.

[Asker]

Yeah I will let him try he`d be the fist who ttys that with me lol I don't know why but I have always been scared to try it thanks

[Anonymous]

Deep throat just nasty rough sex

[Asker]

Ok might try that thanks

[Anonymous]

Why don't you just ask him?

[Asker]

Cause I`m to shy I just don't know how to go about asking him

[Opinion Owner]

Hey honey, I've been wanting to try something new in bed, but I'm not sure what you want, could you tell me what you'd like, and I'll think about it.

That's all you need to say

[Asker]

Hmm ok I will ask him thanks :)

[Opinion Owner]

Yeah

[Asker]

Ok..

[Opinion Owner]

No prob.

[Asker]

Ok cool.

[Opinion Owner]

Yepp

[Asker]

yeah

[Opinion Owner]

@status update. You tell him "I'm a little nervous when I'm on top, is there anything I could be doing better". Listen, relationships are all about communication. If you can't communicate, you will fail

[Opinion Owner]

Now stop trying to get the last fucking god damn word

[Asker]

Lol sorry just what I do can't help it :P and alright good point but he didn't seem to know himself cause I asked if there was anything I should be doing so I didn't feel like I was gonna screw up but he gave me a very confused look and just said to keep it up how I was but never said it was right or anything and yes I agree communication is most important

[Opinion Owner]

Then you don't have to worry. If he's saying you're fine, then you're fine. Unlike women, men typically mean what they say

[Asker]

Yeah true I just thought he looked confused when I asked thats why I was asking but he didn't really try to tell me how to do it so it must have been fine then

[Opinion Owner]

Mhmmm

[Asker]

Yeah...

[Opinion Owner]

Yeppp

[Asker]

Ok...

[Asker]

Well wish he would communicate its been 5 days and he can't seem to text once

[Opinion Owner]

I'm sorry?

[Asker]

Sigh I figured he was busy with exam week and that it was nothing cause his friend was saying no he loves you he's just busy and thats why I thought about trying new things this week on the weekend but when he gets a voicemail where you can tell I`m almost crying and don't answer it makes me wonder what could be going on sorry wasn't trying to confuse you

[Opinion Owner]

OK? (filler)

[Asker]

My mom thinks he's in Seattle still the friend I spoke to has also not heard from him in a week sex has always been a way we get rid of stress for a bit so if it is exam week stressing him out then I would be trying new things to help with the stress if it is just stress I`ll try new things with him if not well then not but I was gonna go to his place and see him tomorrow to see what it is

[Opinion Owner]

Oh, you're that girl, haha, I answered your other question

[Asker]

I`m what girl? mind telling me what the other question of mine was? just wondering ]