Everytime when we argue my girlfriend wants to break up with me, I love her a lot, but i cannot take this emotional roller-coaster anymore, its becoming a burden for my heart. She said "I am sorry for everything, It's not that I don't want to apologize to you for the things I've done, I don't want to argue anymore, but if you not going to care when I cry, die or am hurt, you don't need to care anymore, I am hurt, I will shoulder it on my own, I wish you happiness, bye". She even threatened to kill herself, No matter how many times I said I love her, care for her and even show it, she still keeps saying that I don't care, her behavior is becoming repetitive. i am getting sick and tired of this, should I just move on?
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This is manipulative BS is to make you behave the way she wants you to behave. She needs constant reassurance that you care about her and love her etc. and that's why you get all this BS.
You need to speak to her and tell her exactly how you feel so that she understands what it does to you. Everything is about her and what she needs. It appears to me that your feelings are being ignored. You can't stay in a relationship where your girlfriend is threatening stuff and making you stay out of fear that she will carry out said threat. She is an emotional high maintenance girl which is probably due to her past. You two need to communicate your feelings, tell her that this is not an argument but a discussion and lay it all out so you can move forward. She won't change her behaviour if you keep going back to her.1
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