Let's say I have a crush on a girl, is it weird that I don't think of them in a sexual way?
I imagine myself getting to know them or wish I could spend more time with them etc.
Thinking of having sex with them or any other girl seems degrading treatment to me...
Is that bad?
Most Helpful Girl
Because you don't just her as an object, you see her as a person. That's a good thing.0
Most Helpful Guy
i completely understand what you are talking about. i'm similar in that i didn't entirely sexualize people I liked. I mean i couldn't help but recognize my sexual attraction to them but I didn't think about sex with them as opposed to how i could get to know them
I think it just shows that you don't see women purely for the sexual being then can be but more the human being they are0