Girls, have you ever rejected a guy you liked before?

[Toad-1]

You like the guy and may ne open to dating him but for some reason you still rejected him? Ever done that? If so then why?

[XNicholeMariex3]

Yes, I did that in 8th grade and on graduation day of highnschool LOL.
In middle school I had a crush on a dude in my class because I thought he was cute. He first had 2 female classmates come up to me and ask me out for him because he was scared and I was like "whaaaat?".
But then he got up out of his seat and asked me himself and I freaked out and was like "no!!!". I thought he was immature... He ended up asking one of the girls he had ask me out to be his girlfriend and she said yes. How funny.

On graduation day my brother's friend texted him asking me if i'd go out with him... I thought he was cute and weird but I thought he was just joking and messing with me... But if he was serious... Wtf? Who texts a girls brother to ask her out even though you have her number?

Anyway later on a couple years later I found out he was being serious but by then I had lost interest.

[Alexious]

You still like me tho 😉😏

[XNicholeMariex3]

@Alexious LOL

[Alexious]

Damn... take that as a no.. 😭😭😭
*cries in british*

[XNicholeMariex3]

@Alexious LOL noooooo don't criiiii

[Alexious]

*cries loads* 😭😭😭😭😭

[XNicholeMariex3]

@Alexious noooo -leprechaun embrace-

[YourFutureEx]

I don't think he was immature. YOU were immature. 😒

(Guy in first para)

[XNicholeMariex3]

@YourFutureEx He always screwed around in class and he only wanted to date me because "my eyes sparkled" according to what I overheard him say. He had 2 girls ask me out for him... then when I said no he asked out one of those girls afterwards... Give me a break. Don't come around and attack me. Go fly a kite.

[YourFutureEx]

I'm not attacking. I was trying to make you a better person ;_;

[EmilyPrudent1984]

@YourFutureEx Actually you were not making her a better person. You falsely accused her. Fact.

[YourFutureEx]

@EmilyPrudent1984 Internet women are so sensitive lol

[fauchelevent]

I rejected my boyfriend the first time he asked me, yeah. I was maaaaaaaaajorly insecure at that time and had convinced myself for the past four years that he could never like me so when he did ask me out - in a bad mood, online with the words 'go out with me' because he is bad at emotions -, I freaked out and thought like three things:

1. He's just in a bad mood and making hasty decisions, if he calms down, he won't want me anymore.

2. Maybe it was a joke or a bet, after all, I never thought he could want me and I'd never picked up any signs before.

3. If I do go out with him, I'll just disappoint him.

So yeah, I did make an idiot of myself and rejected him the first time. I later accepted, obviously.

[Toad-1]

If he didn't ask you out again do you think you never would have dated?

[fauchelevent]

I mean, I basically pushed him into asking me out again by bringing it up, but yeah. If he hadn't asked, I don't think we'd have been together. Like I said, I was majorly insecure, it was extremely unlikely that I would ever have taken that step because I definitely didn't have the confidence it took.

[notenough]

OMG THAT SO CUTE LOL

[spuitkaas]

Yes I have. He was a good friend and I kinda likes him (not heavily in love or something), but I heard he basically asked every available girl from my age at school. He asked some classmates and friends of mine and they all rejected him saying that he was a player.
He was really sweet and sensitive, but it just didn't feel right. Maybe because of what those girls said, maybe just a feeling but it got to me.
Maybe if I was single and he was (he has a girlfriend now and is very loyal to her), maybe I would give him a chance.
I learned my lesson though. Don't listen to what other girls say about a guy (because after all, it wasn't true at all).

[XRabbitHeartX]

Nope never... that would just not make any sense.

[Prof_Don]

Hold up! You're telling me that some girl who may have turned me down, may have actually LIKED me?

My goodness girls are fucking weird!

[Toad-1]

you're telling me!

[nymous1234]

sometimes you can tell it would not work out for whatever reason even if you are attracted to him or like him, but in the long run it would not be for the best so to save you both the pain and time wasted you turn them down :(

[Toad-1]

@nymous1234 Like what would make it not work out in the long run?

[nymous1234]

maybe you like spending time with a guy, and you like his smile and face and mutual attraction is there but certain things that you both believe in will crash. For example there was a guy I really liked and he liked me but i always stressed that we should be friends because he was atheist and i believe in God so i knew it would not work out as that was two fundamentally clashing beliefs

[YourFutureEx]

No. Never.

After reading girls' answers I wonder in what world do we live in 😒

[existing_not_living]

Actually, yes, I have. I rejected a guy two years ago because I was scared. I was afraid for some stupid reason. A guy I really like just asked me out yesterday and I rejected him too. I really do like him, but I'm a commitmentphobe and don't want him to get hurt because of me. I could be making a huge mistake like I did two years ago after rejecting the other guy, but I just can't seem to get myself to actually go for what I want.

[Anon1997]

I feel you.

[nymous1234]

lol yep most guys i rejected i was attracted to in some way or maybe even liked them. I did it cause i was afraid of my feelings getting hurt in the long run, so rejecting them is like taking extra caution to not get in too deep. Its fucked up logic but its my logic

[Toad-1]

Its so hard to approach for guys already, and knowing there are girls who reject you even if they like you...

[tiredofheartbrk1]

Yes , I did. In high school. I know high school is so far away but I liked this guy named Jonathan. He use to always flirt with me and all. I thought I was cute. Then one day he asked me out and I flat out said no. I don't know why I did. So sophomore year , junior and senior year I tried to get him to ask me out but he didn't like me. So we graduated and went out separate ways. He would text me occasionally. And then one night I was drunk and needed a ride home. And I called him and he answered. He came and got me. And he tried to kiss me while droppibg me home. I told him I'm drunk and said thanks. His parents were military and were moving to Alaska but he was gonna stay in Texas with his cousins. Before he left he told me I was hoping me and you would be together maybe have an apartment and a kid. Then my heart stopped. Now I think what if that happened. he's engaged now and has a baby girl. I'm happy for him

[amyheatherlynn]

Yes. Not only did we live pretty far away from each other, but he was older (about 7 years) and had a kid from a previous relationship. I was 18 and really didn't want to deal with a guy who lived 2 states away and had a child, so I said no. I really liked him, but I know in the long run it was for the best.

[DocRim]

Yes I did that in high school because I wasn't looking to date at all. Wanting to only focus on school was one of the reasons as to why.

I would only date/get in a relationship when I'm ready to have something serious in life.

[Toad-1]

Do you think even if you thought the guy was absolutely perfect for you, you still would have rejected him?

[brokenbutterfly]

i would reject a guy i like when i know he is a cheater, a drug addict or someone who has to go to jail every time. i don't need that kind of shit in my life..

[Toad-1]

Well why would you like a guy like that anyways?

[brokenbutterfly]

sometimes you can't help who you fall for , it's better to follow your mind instead of your heart when you're in a situation like that

[Toad-1]

Well have you ever rejected a guy whom even their personality you liked too?

[brokenbutterfly]

no i didn't :) why wouldn't i if there was nothing wrong with him

[Anonymous]

Because I thought it was a dare because he was very direct and I didn't know him for that long and I only liked him at first but as I got to know him he was a real jerk and I'm glad I said no because he asked every single girl I know out so yeah k bye

[Prof_Don]

He isn't a jerk, he is doing what a single guy is supposed to do. Ask out many girls until one says "yes"

[Opinion Owner]

@Prof_Don no he slagged off everyone and called people a keen as if it was a bad thing and was so annoying

[Poppykate]

Yes. I have rejected a guy I loved. I really regretted it. I was in a relationship at the time, but it was ending, so I could have said yes. But in respect to the previous guy, I didn't. I wish I had through.

[Emilyshae97]

Well yea. Usually it's because even tho I really like them or find the attractive my womanly senses detect this is not a good partner for me personally. I just dont think there's much potential in the relationship. Happens all the time

[RomansToPhilemon]

I could never imagine rejecting someone I liked. That just seems odd. I am surprised to see so many female comments that have.

[Anonymous]

I have done that before.
Why?
Because I am a coward.

[ConfusedShyGirl]

No not really however I feel like sometimes it is nice to take things slow to genuinely know them before getting into an actual relationship espically if I haven't know him long.

[ashisimo]

yeah, i thought he was joking, his friends were pressuring him to do it so i thought it was a dare :'( what if it wasn't

[Anonymous]

Yeah, a few times. Because I'm stupid maybe? Basically either I didn't feel I was ready to date at that point of time or this one time I just thought a guy was hot but but I said no because he picked on me a lot which made me hate him.

[Opinion Owner]

Also this one time because I thought he was kidding🙄 Apparently he was serious. And he kept on telling me how disappointed he was. Again, I stupid.

[Opinion Owner]

He did ask me out again though, I believe I'll go. Depends. He's being fishy.

[apple24]

nah I never did that! I never believe any want to date me! I always assume it was a joke and it always was.

[LaMasBella]

Yes but that was back in high school, I was inexperienced, shy, and immature.

[lilmissme]

Yup. Even if I like the guy it doesn't mean I would consider them boyfriend material. I had one guy I really liked but things that are really important to me were not even on his radar (I'm NOT talking about marriage or kiddos or even the future).

[Anonymous]

I've rejected girls I've liked before. Why? Because I was shy and nervous hahaha. Either that or mad at them.

[Anonymous]

Yeah, I have. I was in a bad spot for an sort of relationship at the time.

[Deft_maiden]

Oh yes.. High school was brutal