I ran into an ex boyfriend Sunday (we both still care for each other and stayed in contact.. with some flirting) and we got talking and he asked me how I was and it was so great to see me. He hugged me for a long time and kissed me on the forehead. When I told him I needed to go he said ok I'll text you! But he didn't I know it's only been a few days but I thought he would have contact me by now? Am I over thinking this? Do you think he will text?
3mo Update he did text me so thank you for the negative comments. 🙋🙋🙋🙋
It's obvious you want him to text you, but why? Think to yourself why you two broke up to begin with. Try to think if it would be a good idea to stay in touch.
Personally when I have a question, I ask. Forget the "rules". If you're curious, the only one who's really going to know is him. Text him "it was good to see you Sunday but how come I haven't heard from you?". It's a two way street.
if he told you he'd contact you and he didn't bother to , sort of get the feeling he's losing or lost interest , and just said he'd contact you to be nice at the time. he may still talk to you if you run into him in public , that doesn't mean he's interested though , at least sort of my feel
Think about it, do you REALLY want him to text you? What's really the point of that? Don't bring up old skeletons. But maybe he'll text and maybe he won't. We don't know, it's something someone says spur of the moment. We don't really mean it.