I think Alienishboo has given you the best solution. He suggested seeking help, through Al-anon, I think I've also heard that ther is another wing of the same group which deals with narcotics/drugs of all types. If it were me in your place that's what I'd do. I think that you can join even if the user doesn't. I fully agree that even weed can get people addicted to being high whether the THC is addictive or not.
I'm a senior in college this year and have seen a few cases where guys and girls have already screwed their lives up beyond messed up because they just keep smoking or drinking getting into more and more trouble. I really noticed it last year when I transferred from community college to university, the freshmen especially are just nuts. First time away from mommy and daddy, ready access to weed and alcohol so they party all weekend, then on the weekend and like Wednesday or Tuesday nights... Soon it might be every night it's nuts!! I'm glad I got married before transferring and didn't have to live in the dorms, I couldn't study through that! It's really sad to see people who are obviously talented and intelegent get messed up like they do. Sad to see them get into a downward spiral like that.
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K it's sounds difficult butit'sactually easy. Firsttellhimthis :"*name*Iunderstand why you are doing that, I know you are the best person in the world (for me) and I know you would never do anything that would hurt me or my feelings., and you're very important to me, *remind him the good times you guys have had*Iwant what's best for you (don't tell him to stop doing what he's doing, everyone hates being told what to do, gotta admit that) if there's anything I can do, I'm here for you, I'm here to help you, and I appreciate allthegood things you've done to me, thank youbabe *hug him tightly*and I'm sorry about what I'vesaid before, I know you wouldn't get kicked out of school because I know you will stop doing iteventually. I believein you! I'm here for you ifyou need help. I love you babe :*" Men wants respect and feel appreciated, if he feels that, he will feel loved and do the things you want him to do without actually telling him or nagginghim.
First of all don't break up with him. My boyfriend smokes a lot of weed; I personally don't like it but it's a way of him dealing with his stress. You can't just get a smoker to stop smoking they can actually get really sick , especially if their body is use to it. My boyfriend and I had a conversation about him slowly cutting down on smoking , so instead of him smoking 5 times a day aim for 3. If it's going to be a problem with the courts he needs to get a doctor to prescribe him the weed so this way if he's caught with some on him it will be okay.
Throw the fact that it's a drug out the window for a second... you can get addicted to anything... gambling, exercise, sex...
Your boyfriend has a problem. I don't want to hear this argument about how "you can't get addicted to weed, because it's not an addictive chemical." Yeah, neither are video games, gambling, sex, or exercise, and yet people can have some real problems with those. You can get addicted to getting high.
(speaking to your boyfriend directly) The weed isn't a fun recreational thing you do every now and then... now it's a problem, and you can't seem to handle your business anymore. You're weak. Better wake up and get your shit together my man.
I get you he's being stupid I think he might be addicted or just a dumb ass with no understanding of the possible repercussions. I have no problem with people smoking weed but if your risking your future just to get high you have a problem. I think you might have to give him an altamative
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I know that this is a hard message, but you need to break up with him. I know weed is not addictive like heroin/cocaine/etc. but it is still a drug. A man who is in prison is not going to be a good support for you and is not going to be able to build a life with you like you will want.
he's a fucking dumbass. I dont have any problems with drugs and think they should be legal, but people who fiend over weed and can't find anything else to do for fun need to grow the fuck up.
Dump his stupid ass. Hell he might even drag you down with him if you stay with him.
I had friends like that whom I had to cut off because I didn't want to get caught up in the stupid shit they did.Tell him how selfish he is being and how his choices affect you. And try to get him to at least seek help.
Otherwise dump him, dont let him drag you downyou can't really help someone who doesn't want your help. He needs to realize that he need help in the 1st place
You can´t change him, if he don´t find enough reason to change he´ll not do it even if you trye your best,. Life is short.
Dump that loser since, you are not married to him and move on!
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Without Side Effects Or Withdrawal Symptoms!totally an exaggeration. i know tons of people that smoke weed... i dont see the big deal.
Get away from that guy, he's no good for you.
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