😧! I find them Highly unattractive.. on anyone,, especially if on the breasts..., yet I always advice not to be self conscious because having a complex is even more unattractive...
Most people get them regardless, but it's still better to at least try to prevent them... some people don't even know about them until they get them cause nobody told them about them..
I have a cousin who has a 12 year old girl.. I used to tell her she needed to watch her weight and my cousin got mad at me because she said I was making gopher daughter self conscious... ... and now the daughter a BUNCH of stretch marks allll over her body at her young age, I don't think I've ever seen anyone with as much a son hers especially at her age... that is sad... Had she listened when I tried to tell her to watch her weight, she wouldn't have all these awful things all over her body.., On the contrary to what she said, mine was simply advice to prevent this sort of thing, and instead For not talking to her about her weight, now she really WILL be self conscious because of scars that are there forever...
Some people are seriously ignorant.
I have stretch marks on my ass and hips and thighs. you can only really see them when I have a tan since they're a light gray color and I'm pretty light skinned. I used to try so hard to make them go away but now I love them!!! I don't care what anyone thinks of them. I have to live in my body everyday until the day I die and I've decided that I'm done hating it. I will love every damn "imperfection" or so their called by so many and the media and the cosmetics industry. this is the body that my parent's love created. this is the body that God has gifted to me. this is the body that will someday birth my children. this is my body and mine alone so I will love every single inch of it. I will be proud of these marks of growth and anyone who says I shouldn't be is nothing to me; they clearly haven't learned to love themselves and are too focused on those who have.
After having 2 children I have permanent ones. I don't like them but I'm not ashamed by them. There are natural and I see them as mummy scars and I feel it's one of my biggest achievements having 2 children. If a man I meet in the future doesn't like them - tough shit there's not a lot I can do about them. If they can't accept my body as it is they can do one!
I loved them on the mother of my child. they were our permanent, natural, Mark of evidence we shared a beautiful daughter together. breaks my heart that much more knowing that they are still on her, still ours yet another man gets lay with her and claim them as his own. we were young and dumb and now have them as a lifetime reminder that the love of my life and family of my dreams are gone while her everything looks at them as a flaw in what i saw and know to be the most beautiful girl in the world aside from the gift of our daughter who gave us the streatch marks. each one of us contributed into making them. that's why we were a family. such a shame how rare they are these days and how many broken hearts there are.
stretch mark is bad when a woman feels she is not comfortable with it and duuuuh %99.9 of women would. Though for a man it varies on how hard it is some stretch marks are so obvious that it makes difference in the skin color and some are just slight which is fine. the hard ones is a turn of specially the pregnant women that is some intense stretch mark. other stretch marks come from gaining weight and losing weight which they don't make a huge difference in the skin color. Solution is work out not heavy weight but exercise!
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I liked reading the comments from guys because i think it takes a mature man to respect a woman for her real body. I see so many woman modifying their bodies to look better and im like but why? Stretch marks are caused by the lack of elasticity in the skin. When i fell pregnant i was fortunate to not get stretch marks on my tummy but i got a few light ones on my hips and im ok with them. So to all the guys who have such an uplifting comment here thank you for loving us woman the way we are thats a real man!!!
I read a quote that said tattoos, stretch marks, scars are proof that you've lived and that makes me think of them in a better light and they honestly don't look bad. I do have some stretch marks, I was very insecure about them when they were 'fresh' and red but now that they've faded into a white-ish color. I've been embracing them a lot more
I have them on my thighs, calves and butt. Maybe on my boobs too but I haven't noticed any. I don't really like them, but there's not much to be done. Plus my skin is already so imperfect and always has been, its just another log to the fire. I know its normal, and I only have it because I kept growing all at once, plus I started eating as I was growing and didn't stop eating as I did even though I stopped growing height in sixth grade (5'7.5ft), and moved to a house without a yard; and gained like 50ibs though I've never been over 180 so I don't know if its normal to have a lot from that?
I've never heard of someone say they have no stretch regardless of their size Im a teenager so it's common but the only times I really see girls with no stretch marks are on social media & fashion magazine so they could of edit it out or have surgery for it
I don't mind them at all. It doesn't change who she is, or how sexy and desirable she is to me.
There's some shallow people out there who think they are, or expect perfection. None of us are. If the guy who is very blessed enough to have you in his life cannot, or does not, fully appreciate everything and all that you are, then his sorry ass doesn't, and never did deserve you.
Stretch marks are natural, you look cute with them! Although I don't know personally who you are, you shouldn't be so up in arms about it! Stretch marks are what makes you, like scars, beauty marks, etc.
I personally find stretch marks and acts to be the most appealing 'imperfections' on a woman's body. The lack of flawlessness not only looks more natural, but also gives them much more of an appeal. It shows that they are human and they're not afraid of what they are or what they have been through. I'd say it's a sort of pride and confidence upon one's body.
I have them on my breast, hips, butt, and thighs and I learn to just accept them; some can go away while others can't. Just love yourself and don't care what others think hun!! ;)
I'm sure i must have been with women who had stretch marks on their butts, thighs, bellys. I'd remember the women, i'd never remember the stretch marks at all.
It's not an issue for me, women should stop stressing about "imperfections", perfection is boring.
Loved reading the comments. I have seriously bad stretch marks after having my children so it is nice to see so much positivity.
I have some on my hips and thighs, but they're not a major concern of mine. Almost everyone has them. It doesn't mean you got fat at any point, just going through puberty causes it.
@Laquandads96 I myself have stretch marks on my ass lol and a lot of other guys do so embrace being human and love yourself and people will be drawn to that self confidence and love you too i guess hahah
I always wondered why people dont like stretch marks. I wouldn't mind if my girl had that at all. I would find her attractive regardless. If you can control it then embrace it!
My stretch marks never bothered me. I don't have a ton but I do have some. My skin is super sensitive so I get stretch marks fairly easily.. but mine don't bother me and no man has ever said anything about them or hated them
I have them. At first I was embarrassed by them, now I embrace them.
I think they're beautiful and some what tell a story
Everyone gets stretch marks.
Through pregnancy, through growth spouts, through fast weight gain/loss.
Youd be hard pressed to find a woman who doesn't have stretch marks.
I've got them on my inner thighs
I've got a couple on. my hips and inner thighs nothing too bad though. my daughter was small and bio oil has been my best friend when it comes to stretch marks.. be proud of your stretch marks.. youve brought a new person into this world thats the greatest thing anyone can ever do. guys you should love your girl if she's carried your child and bares the badges of life on her body
I like them on butts, I personally have them on my boobs/belly and they are a little deep... but it's ok. I think they look kinda cool
i think those are so minor you should not worry about them at all! you can barely see and you have a great bod (coming from a female)
Its usually an indication of motherhood which is something to be proud of and a very beautiful aspect of life. Not every woman has the chance to be a mom. If not and its from poor lifestyle, its just a reminder that self control is a very important character trait to have. Hope this helps. 😊
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