umm idk. I don't know either of you or just how "tight" tight is. but I totaly know where you're coming from, how bout this, instead of starting off a conversation with something super flirtatious like that, why not end a conversation with something a little more casual. before you go to bed, when you two are still texting each other say something like "g'night, love ya" its along the same lines, but at the same time its quite a bit more casual. and it gives him quite a bit of time to think about it. it doesn't come across as you absolutley having a crush on him or anything, but it reiterates a message of "i love you like family". at the same time it lets him give a responce, or it'll give him all night to think about what he'll say to you.
and if he doesn't say anything like that back, you probably just cought him off gaurd. say it again the next night.
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It may be the first thing you better find out how he would fill about that and see what he think about you saying hay love if you fill there is more there talk to him about it and if you are real tight you may just find out that he like you more than just a friend and get a boy friend out of this
For me there are words that I loosely use that would be considered words of endearment. Then there are others that I would never use because it can bring confusion being that that word is not normally part of my vocabulary. If he is not used to you saying it, it will put a question mark above his head. If you mean nothing by it by all means knock yourself out! But if has meaning you need be careful because who knows how he will react. If you have feelings for him let him know, don't start using words to communicate something. It will only make things confusing and difficult!
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If he questions you, just telll him you call everyone that.
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no not at all...unless he over analyzes everything...i do it all the time, no biggie
Na, I think its okay as long as you guys were good friends
Yes. You should only say that to a guy if you love him.
are you trying to flirt with her? if so go for it
Lol I would, you knw, just to b funny & all hehe
in a friend way its ok
not really if you guys are close
Your p'ussy and his ass hole?
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