Why Do Asian Women (Pakistani, Afghan etc) Rarely Date Black Men?

The rarest interracial parings tend to be South Asian women with Black men.

What is it about black men that you Pakistani/Afghan/Iranians find so difficult to be attracted to. In fact, you guys seem to date inter-racially the least. WHY?

Is there an added stigma to being with black men that we don't know about?

This isn't simply in relation to the ones who are born and raised there. I'm also referring to the ones that are born in western countries and are exposed to enough black people.

What is it about black guys that is so unattractive or taboo in those cultures. Is it just blatant racism?


Most Helpful Girl

  • firstly, matchmaking is pretty common among the south Asian or middle eastern people. which is probably why they rarely date interracially.

    also, it seems like they tend to marry/date within their own race when they're in the US/europe. but here in singapore, a lot of them do marry/date outside their race with the malays, chinese, africans, whites, peranakans, etc.

    maybe the reason why they don't marry/date outside their race in the west because western people (whether you're white or black) have a different culture and different values. over here, we all have pretty much the same kinds of values & culture that it's probably easier for them to accept people of other races HERE than in a western society.

    just taking a stab at your question, but I may be wrong.

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What Girls Said 9

  • Because of difference in cultures, religion, tradition, values. xD

    • Black people (especially those with African roots) tend to have far more commonalities with Asian cultures than white people do, yet white men still date more Asian women than black men.

    • Its all about what different people like.

  • Pakistani/Afghan/Iranians aren't Asian's...

    • They're South & West Asian girl...Asia is very big.

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    • Oh. Okay.

    • Yeah, they are.

  • That's not true I am an afghan girl who loves black men and I have friends that agree with me but their a rare breed at where I live which is quite unfortunate. Don't feel discouraged. "The darker the berry, the sweeter the juice"

  • i didn't know afghan and pakistani women do dating ! excuse my ignorance but as far as I'm concerned they're too fanatic and have a very rigid religious culture (iranian girls too) that allows only marriage ! Dating isn't into consideration ! Plus, it is better if from the same country, colour and SPECIALLY FROM THE SAME RELIGION ! Meaning you being black doesn't change the fact that they have a racist and fanatic religious culture (GENERALLY AND BASED TO MY INFO, I MIGHT BE MISTAKEN) ! if you were chinese, japonese, thai, American indian, or too white it wouldn't work either ! I repeat, I don't know them all, but this is what I know about them, I might be mistaken ! hope my words would help !

    • ur right dear , we should respect our culture and relligion

  • I'm afghan and we should start dating who ever we want to I'm tired of the strict culture me myself I date I repeat I would date and marry a black man because I think they are more cool to be around fuck the haters!

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What Guys Said 2

  • I think those cultures are especially clingy to their own, not only for the reason of culture but also religion. Family plays a big factor and chances are their parents pick out who they are going to be with (I'm talking first/ second generation) or at least need to approve of the guy first.

    I think there are many negative perceptions on black guys and that actually makes most girls hesitant to date them, and in this case I can see these girls who are family oriented and more reserved, not wanting to go that road.

  • I have a friend who is from afganistan, and she is hot. She finds black men hot.