I don't see what the big deal is. I've been with my boyfriend for four years and if he wants a pic of me, then I send it. You said you just wanted a picture, not a sexy one or a naked one...so one of her face or from the shoulders up would have been good, right? Assuming this is a regular relationship (not online) I don't see the issue. She must have thought you wanted a sexy picture since I don't believe you specified to her what kind you wanted. Or she's having doubts about the relationship. Or she's just tired as she said. I get tired really early at night some days.
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by any chance is this a relationship online and your just texting or is she like you see everyday girlfriend because if she was an online one some girls take other girls photos and fake being a person so she might not have had a photo of the girl she took pictures from on her phone so she can't send one but if she is a real life girl you see everyday then I don't maybe she didn't like what she was wearing or something I am like that when I look gross I refuse to send a picture to my boyfriend if he wants one .
As others have said maybe she's weird, maybe she's insecure, maybe something happened to her face.
Her taking a picture of her feet is her way of being "humph-y". She's taken a picture for you of her but not what you meant.
She's being stubborn.
Maybe take a trip to see her. If she says no its a commitment issue, if she says yes, it's a security issue.
Most likely she just didn't feel attractive.
Yes this is normal.
Don't read into this.
Many women (I'd wager most) are very critical of themselves, and pictures are cruel judges. Every flaw can be captured in great detail. Every strand of hair that's not cooperating can be noticed. Pictures are also things that people remember each other by. Even if it doesn't matter to you, it very well can matter to her, and this should be respected.
Man dont be mad i think she is either cheating on you or teasing you
And when you go back whom dont open the door and start shouting you are cheating on me
If she really loves you she will tell but dont look suspicious and wait for her
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Sounds weird. She has issues its not normal I mean I hate when people ask for pics of me but I have a couple just of my face that I keep on my phone just in case. If she is so uncaring about your feelings and how much you lover and miss her maybe she's trying to tell you she's done. I hope you get it all worked out.
she might not want you to see her without makeup/in sweats/looking rough so she's making an excuse.
having a week apart - she would want you to see her at her best, looking pretty/sexy etc. her Facebook has probably got the nicest pictures of her, that's why she told you to look on her profile.
i wouldn't worry about it.
and I bet you, when you come back she'll be looking amazing, and would have made an effort t dress up/put on makeup etc just for you.If I had to say something the others haven't said yet, then there's the slightly possibility that something happened to her face. I'm not trying to joke. But maybe her face got swollen, her eyebrows was made wrong or something else. And maybe she's trying to cover it up?
I don't know... Could be?I wouldn't do that. It's awkward. I'd feel ugly and especially if she was in bed she probably feels extra unattractive at the moment. Guys just don't understand things like this usually, but take my word for it. Few girls would enjoy doing that spur of the moment if at all.
That's a pretty big red flag, dude. If you were asking for a naked pic I could totally understand her hesitation, but refusing to send a headshot to your boyfriend who is away and misses you is very strange.
My boyfriend always asks me to send pictures of myself to him. I never do because taking pics of myself is just awkward. I over analyze it far too much, and I'm just not comfortable doing it. maybe your girlfriend feels the same.
She may not be comfortable with the idea of you starring at an awkward picture of her for a long time doing God knows what with it. Or maybe she's one of those people that are really insecure and hate the way they look in pictures. Are you asking her to be naked in the picture? If so, then I can understand why she wouldn't want to send you a picture.
She might be insecure. How long have you guys been dating? Tell her how much you miss and just really want to see her. I don't see why else she wouldn't want to send a pic. How long have you been gone? Maybe she feels like she's gained weight.. I don't know what to tell you. Tell her how you feel, and she if she responds.
thats a major sign that she's not really comitted to you
Wow that's hilarious. Its like you were referring to me and Manny
I laughed so hard at this her feet really maybe she feels ugly
If I were you I would dump her ass ASAP, because I have a gut feeling she's been cheating on you.
Dump that ho. You deserve better than that.
Doesn't sound good buddy. :/
Will send you a pic of me instead then. Lol
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