This girl he knew started texting him a few months a go and she was telling him she loved him and blah blah blah. Well he told her to stop texting him because it was causing trouble between me and him. Well he blew up and told him that I was a bitch and he deserves better. Well he hasn't heard from her in 2 months and she started texting him last week and she told him she loved him and she asked him to leave me. Well he told her stop again. Well last night she text him at 2am saying "i really miss you" Well I took his phone and responded saying "Let me make this clear. I am with my girlfriend and I love her. This is not OK and you need to stop." She Responded saying "Look you are the best friend I have ever had and my god I am sick of us being on and off. I miss you! Call me when you stop letting that girl control you." Well after that he blocked her number and 2 days a go she sent him a message from a different phone saying "I really need to talk to you about something" He said "Ok...talk." She said "No, I need to do it in person." He said "I won't meet you in person but I will do it in text." She said "No, I need to do it in person."
This went on all day! He told her no and she would say yes, in person. Well finally he responded and said "LOOK, I will NOT meet you in person but you can text me." She said "WTF is your deal? Do you think I wanna sleep with you? If you do that is f up! I just wanna be friends and I don't get why your girlfriend has to be around every time I wanna hang with you!" He finally just ignored her messages but she isn't getting the pic and she keeps sending me messages...what should I do? should I have a chat with her?
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you definately had the right to say something about the problem-but not to her. did you ever think that he got mad at you because you took his phone behind his back and sent a message as him? this could be one of the reasons he did what he did and why he doesn't understand that he crossed the line. think of it as an eye for an eye. he thinks of you as an instigator. in his mind he thinks that you caused all of the problems. he thinks that what you did was way worse then what he did. this gives him justification for doing it. and did you see what the message said? he could have threatened her to stop. you don't know. think about it: if he told you not to send her a message but she constantly kept it up, would you? what he did wasn't right but don't hate him. he obviously cares about you. if she said she's the better girl and he didn't respond, well, he took your advice-a little late- but better late then never. guys heads are extremely thick and it takes an atomic bomb to break through to them. your fight must have been that bomb. and as for the girl, keep him away. use your woman powers to make him forget all about her. neither of you don't need to be around a druggie. good luck(:0