I have been seeing a man that lives in a neighboring city for about a month. I went to his house before, now he wants to meet half way in a hotel. He is willing to pay but for some reason I feel sleazy about this and I am not sure why. He claims he needs a "break" from working on his house and being at home.
The last time we were together I got the "I don't want any attachments" speech and pretty much the relationship seems to be focused around sex. I really wish I could have more so I feel a hotel is so impersonal, however, I really like this guy and don't know him well enough for there to have much more developed. I feel he is uncomfortable bringing me to his house as this must mean some sort of attachment thing for him.
I have never met anyone in a hotel unless it was a boyfriend and I was already dating them.
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Then tell him you aren't comfortable with meeting him at a hotel then. That's exactly what he wants, sex. He's basically turning you into a weekend bootycall. You have to hold out on him if you really like him, because once you give that up, that's all you're gonna be to him. Nothin but a piece of ass.1
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