I have been chatting to a guy online for 3 weeks and he traveled an hour to see, we met for a date and had a great time! It was too late for him to catch train home, so he asked to stay at mine and I said in the spare room!...he fell asleep on my couch anyhow and as I reach over to turn light out he pulled me near and one thing led to another and we had a fumble...we did not have sex...anyway this carried on and off all night and morning! Since he left he has called me and was chatty and friendly...dropped huge hints he likes me and he had a great time...but still hasn't asked to see me again...my common sense tells me either he has had his fumble and wants some more...or he just hasn't got the guts to ask me out again...its all too vague...help!
A guy being vague after first date!!!?? am I right to stay quiet!!
What Guys Said 1
He seems like he is playing games...
Or he may not be into you, of which I highly doubt (because he is initiating most contact).
Either ask him outright for another date and be really cool about it too (as if you asking to meet up with your gf).
But I recommend just play it cool by not asking for another date or talking about that night.
It sort of like who will back down first...
Also try to date other people and let him no in an indirect way...
If he likes you it just increases his attraction to you if he doesn't then he will feasil away.
I know its weird advice but this guy sounds like he is playing mind games...0
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