A guy being vague after first date!!!?? am I right to stay quiet!!

roxiehart
I have been chatting to a guy online for 3 weeks and he traveled an hour to see, we met for a date and had a great time! It was too late for him to catch train home, so he asked to stay at mine and I said in the spare room!...he fell asleep on my couch anyhow and as I reach over to turn light out he pulled me near and one thing led to another and we had a fumble...we did not have sex...anyway this carried on and off all night and morning! Since he left he has called me and was chatty and friendly...dropped huge hints he likes me and he had a great time...but still hasn't asked to see me again...my common sense tells me either he has had his fumble and wants some more...or he just hasn't got the guts to ask me out again...its all too vague...help!
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well since then he has phoned me twice and we have had a great laugh...but still not sign of him asking!?!
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well I did it...mid convo L.nite I asked him out in a jokey way...the response? he laughed! bear in mind he doesn't take compliments easy...still no excuse..am I rite to feel little insulted!? a bit rude really!
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and STILL NO REPLY! he virtually ignored me after that!
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i have deleted him off everything..phone, facebook...im not putting up with that crap! onwards and upwards...!
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hahahaha he called and I said couldn't keep my mouth shut...is not in my nature to do that...told him how I thought it was rude that he didn't answer me...and he apologized and I said its cool...just one of my pet hates, and now he still ignoring me..lmao!
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and he is gone...i told him he gotta learn to open his mouth and talk if he is really interested...no skin off my nose got anutha date next wknd! heeeeeee heeeeee next!
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that's anutha date with a diff guy just to clarify! I am taking myself out of that guys 'GAME' as you put it!
A guy being vague after first date!!!?? am I right to stay quiet!!
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