My ex always brags about how her rebound is so perfect.

On her social networking sites she brags about how much this guy is perfect and she likes him. We just broke up about a month ago and we dated three years I was her first and so I was wondering is it possible for a girl to fall in life right after a nasty break up with her first for everything?


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  • Yeah like the others said it is just that excitement phase that will disappear with time. With my ex I ended up unknowingly being the rebound girl. It was all really exciting, he wanted to go so fast, he changed our relationship status after only 3 weeks without asking me, started posting statuses about us, invited me to an event that his ex would be at. Guess what it all fizzled out after 4 weeks, I was completely oblivious to the fact he was actually using me to get back at his ex-girlfriend. After 8 months I finally broke up with him. So take it from someone who has been on the other side, she is trying to rub it in how happy she is and it is quite frankly pathetic. If she was really into him, she wouldn't be on Facebook all the time posting about it. She would be with him.

    There is no way she is in love with him yet, just wait til it all fizzes out. It will happen trust me. Tbh you have to feel sorry for the other guy, she is just using him to get over you.

    I would delete her from Facebook so she can't play these stupid games.

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What Girls Said 7

  • She's not in love. There is an 'excitement' phase in new relationships where everything is new new new and exciting and thrilling and whatever. That is called infatuation, not love. Why she's bragging about some dude she's only just met and doesn't really even know yet is silly, but she's just exploring infatuation. Infatuation does not last. It is a temporary high from being with someone new. That being said, I KNOW not lurking your ex's social media sites is inexorably hard. but try. try to not lurk her page because she's obviously got no qualms about flashing her every thought on her page. So, either delete your social media page to avoid her for a while- or block her.

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  • I agree with yopyopyop. Also why are you still connected to her if you broke up. You shouldn't be friends or anything on social websites. Maybe someday but not now when everything is so fresh. The fact that you are still connected this way and she posts such things proves she doesn't care about your feelings. Why do you want to see that. Check it out in a few months when she's on her 6th great boyfriend.

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  • Sounds to me like she's trying to convince herself of that more than anyone.

    My boyfriend is the best thing that's ever happened to me, but you will rarely see me brag on Facebook about how great he is, because I'm too busy BEING WITH HIM and experiencing said greatness.

    A lot of women jump into a new relationship after a break up in order to block out the pain and just pretend that the new life is so much better.

    Why haven't you blocked her yet?

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  • shes doing it to rub your face in her new relationship and make you jealous, delete her its not worth being tied up in knots over her immaturity and vindictiveness

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  • I think the real question is why do you care? Then the second question is who was at fault for the break up? I think if you did her dirty then she has every right to brag and too bad for you. However, if she was at fault then I am very sorry for what you must be going through. You probably should not look her up or have any contact (I even view photos as contact) with her. However, I know that is hard to do so sounds like it will only take time.

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  • maybe she is trying to cover up her true emotions

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  • Block her.

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What Guys Said 5

  • If there is one thing women are good at it is sleeping to soon with a new guy and then justify it to herself and everyone around her by claiming that he's perfect in every way and "why wait if you know he's the one?".

    It's probably over soon. Those guys that show up "all of the sudden" and are "too good to be single" are usually not so great once women actually get to know them.

    Did I put too much personal hurt in that comment? I think I might have...

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  • Never a good idea to be keeping exes on any social media .. just too disturbing... You really shouldn't even be thinking about her... She is moving on dude you don't need that .. Be Thankful she is gone... You don't need that !

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  • You wonder if it is possible, so yes it is, there is no rule and everybody's different.

    Now if we talk about probabilities, it's a different story.

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  • because that's how all women are, my ex is seeing some a55hole and it's all over her Facebook, he has his own place and a car too where as I don't which is why she went for him.

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  • Cut all ties from her. Seriously.

    Shes just bragging about this lump to grab your attention. So block her from everything and don't ever unblock her. Seriously.

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