How about you treat her like a normal girl?
I'm dating a D1 swimmer too and trust me, he's not amused by swimmer references. I once asked him if he wanted to go swimming with me one day and he was like, "Babe, I have double practices today. The LAST thing I want to do between them is go swimming."
Don't treat her like she's on some pedestal. She puts her pants on the same way you do - one leg at a time.
Also, please don't get all man-hurt about it if she can beat you in an arm wrestle contest or bench more than you (although swimmers bench for endurance, not muscle bulk), and don't get offended if she's in better shape than you.
Start off simple - favorite color, favorite food, etc. You can ask her about swimming if you want, like what her stroke is, whether or not she enjoys swimming...my boyfriend is a very good swimmer but he doesn't particularly enjoy it :p
Oh, and treat her like a lady. As a D1 swimmer odds are she's going to have man shoulders and very narrow hips. Not that that means anything but since you seem to be a beginner at this whole deal...don't mention that to her :p Unless she brings it up (a LOT of my friends are swimmers and they bring it up a lot lol) in which case completely disagree with her.
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Go with the flow... Things never go as planned...
Btw if you like to think your confidence lvl is represented by the infinity sign then you really shouldn't even need people's advice because your suppose to be self assured... Also telling people about your self discovery made your description way longer when it could have been shorter like " I made a lot of self discovery these last few years and I don't wanna mess it up with this girl any advice?" Also I believe you used the word insinuated wrong...
#1: No swimming jokes. She's heard them all by now, so you'll only be the tool to repeat whatever is in your repertoire for the 84th time in her life.
#2: PIIHB
#3: ?
#4: Profit
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