No, see, that's the problem. You put yourself in this place. You made him feel rejected, and then you made him feel zoned. This is not going to work the way you want it to. You can't get him to ask you out again. Sure, you can try to do what CollinR or what Cesilia12 said in the beginning, but you'll quickly find that to be borderline to absolutely useless. He is not going to ask you out. I can pretty much bet on it.
Basically, at this point, if you're into him, you should make a move. This is how this stuff works. He tried, and look how that ended up. Now the ball is in your court. Make a play. Score. I guarantee it will work. I know there's no shame in making a move on a guy, and judging by what you said, it sounds like you have a very good chance with him. All you have to do is make a move. Ask him out. Explain yourself. That, or you could try some of the things that Cesilia12, but speaking as a guy, I honestly think a more direct approach is best now.
Think it over.
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I'm afraid the other guys are correct - you rejected him, he's not going to stick his head in the guillotine again just so you can chop it off.
He's a young guy, rejection still stings especially when you were best friends. He is not going to go through that again.
The only way you'll get him now, is to make the move yourself.
And even then, there's no guarantee you'll get him. Some guys can be just as stupid as girls and say no to something they actually want.
Haha I'm sorry you have to experience the wrath of the guys on this site who have been friend zoned themselves. This is a pretty hot topic here.
However, I agree that you should ask him out yourself rather than waiting on him. It sounds like he still likes you, so he'll probably thank you for it. My advice is to just blurt it out the next time you feel bold. And say "would you like to date?" or "do you want to be my boyfriend?" rather than "wanna hang out?" Just so he knows what you mean. Good luck! :)
Flirt with him a lot. Hug him a lot. If he allows you to get really close to him for a long time he likes you. But sometimes you really have to take matters into your own hands. I pursued my boyfriend. Plus we're engaged. There is no shame in pursuing him. Gosh if it works out well he'll thank you for it later on down the road. Invite him to the movies or to walk you home, shoot if he walks you home invite him in. Have video game sheshes. Get closer to him, be his best friend.
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Tell him strait up, be honest with him and tell him how you feel about him, hint that you like him, flirt with him or even ask him on a date, or say you heard some movie or restaurant is awesome and wanted to see if you two could go sometime, and go from there. Best of luck
You friend zone him, and now you think he's even going to try after that? Pfft, not happening. Get real.
You can't. You f***ed it up. He's not going to make a move, anymore. You have to do it yourself.
Either tell him how you feel (as in saying that you want to date him and see where things go)...or show him how you feel (as in give him a kiss).
Just ask him then! Ask him out!
Kiss him.
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