Why most men prefer more feminine women rather than tomboyish women?

[Anonymous]

Another guy here stated in one of his opinions that most men find feminine women more attractive than tomboyish women and i found that kinda... sad.

I find feminine women boring actually, i like the woman to be more on the tomboyish side. As well as i like the man to be on the feminine side because masculine men are boring as well.

I really find the norms "feminine woman" and "masculine man" BORING as hell...

Anybody else who agrees with me?

[Ananchor]

I think in general it's best to have both traits within yourself for both sexes.
I dress very girly, often only wearing dress, I look very girly, long hair, hourglass figure. But I can smack talk with the best of them, camp, climb trees, shoot guns, I'm smart and witty.

My boyfriend is a block of muscle, his job basically means to be a bad ass (no I won't say what) but when he gets off he comes home to me, thanks me for my beautiful dinner I made him, gives me kisses, cuddles up to me, tells me about his day, his family, his friends. Even in his sleep he cuddles up and mumbles I'm beautiful. I wouldn't want a meat head and he wouldn't want a feminine girl would couldn't hold her own

[musicbrain5]

I guess they don't want to feel like they are dating a dude. It's probably why some guys won't date girls who are taller than them either. Luckily I found the perfect balance between being feminine and being a tomboy.

[Anonymous]

It's all about personal preference. A cute tomboyish gal might be able to attract more men than the feminine less attractive woman.

[Asker]

how would you describe a "cute tomboyish gal" exactly according to the appearance?

[Mesonfielde]

Lol, screw traditional masculinity and femininity. It is a bunch of negative traits and I do not find either extremity appealing at all. Submissiveness? Aggression? Driven by pure irrational emotion, or being completely stoic? No thanks, all of these are detrimental. "Tomboys" are more interesting, but do you know what the best is? Someone who doesn't use these labels to define themselves, they just act as they are, those who are defined by themselves and not by random traits, definitions and arbitrary concepts.

[Daveduck]

I like feminine women but I do like some tomboyish traits too.
But more on the nerdy side.

[Asker]

what do you mean by nerdy?

[Daveduck]

well... a girl who enjoys playing games and watching action/sci fi movies.
But at the same time knows how to dress properly and doesn't act like a man lol

[Asker]

hey a gamer isn't a nerd... i'm a gamer too and i don't consider myself one

[Daveduck]

ah yes but most people call gamers nerds. I am considered a nerd but when you look at me you wouldn't think so. Its all good embrace it, guys love nerd chicks.

[Asker]

those who think gamers are nerds areplainly stupid... i know when to stop, i won't let a game totally absorb me

[Encolpius]

I'm fairly a traditional guy, and my girlfriend is very feminine and old-fashioned (wears long dresses/skirts, no pants), and I don't consider us to be boring at all. :)

[Asker]

aaaaaaarghhhh

[Encolpius]

I'm a fairly* ... haha. I wasn't even on my phone this time...

[Anonymous]

Most guys are masculine, and masculine is attracted to feminine. You're different and that's OK, but realize you are different and don't expect others to be like you.

[Asker]

Ok i know... but isn't a maculine male and a feminine female a really BORING couple? Not anything unique there

[Opinion Owner]

No, not at all. What would be boring about two opposites who are passionately attracted to their opposite. What in my opinion is boring is a male who behaves like a female or a female who behaves like a male. Who would want them? Who would find them attractive? THAT is what sounds boring.

[Asker]

look... they're boring becausee they won't drow people's attention. 95% (and probably a little bit more) of the couples are like that... normality is boring... nothing unique there you know

[Encolpius]

Why do they need to draw people's attention? There's nothing wrong with being "boring looking."

[Asker]

well you know definetely more people will starring at a tall muscular woman who has a short weak man by her side making him look like her pussy unlike the opposite. For me it's boring when you stop being unique... you'll fade away into the mass and you'll be NOTHING. you'll just be a boring common person that you meet everyday.

[Opinion Owner]

People stare at freaks, automobiles accidents and train wrecks. That doesn't mean they are attractive. The reason 95% of couples are not freaks is because they are attracted to beauty, not freakishness. Don't confuse the two.

If freaks were desirable, people would desire them. They don't.

[Asker]

well i prefer to be a freak rather than a regular guy... is this bad?

[Opinion Owner]

No, not at all. I have no problem with freaks. I DO have a problem with freaks trying to tell normal people they are boring though...

Get over yourself and be nice.

[AshBrown]

Are you a borderline case yourself?

[Asker]

well actually i like women to be more manly and strong.. i'd not mind if she was a trans though... but i'd go with an androgynous male or a crossdresser, as well. definetely not with a masculine man... they're dirty as hell

[AshBrown]

The my friend, you know the answer. Don't view OTHERs as the ones who are not normal.

[yaddayaddayadda02]

Not me. I prefer feminine women.

[shadysworld]

I prefer masculine men.

[Asker]

same goes with women as i see. most women want a masculine man and most men want a feminine woman... oh shit..

[shadysworld]

Well looks like you answered your own question.

[kangy]

I prefer masculine man who also have a gentle side

[gemgem]

Nobody other than incel nerds

[Anonymous]

Not all men, I actually prefer tomboyish girls ;)