i asked a question if guys like it when a girl ties her hair up, and they said no, they like it down and long...which I do often, but how come when I want to be comfortable and tie my hair up, I'm considered ugly?
I agree with rainbows as comfortable things normally are unnattractive and uncomfortable things are usually attractive.
But why do you think tying your hair up is unattractive?
Whenever I meet up with my boyfriend at his house or mine, I generally have my hair up, and he always takes it down, its not that he doesn't like it, he just prefers it down, which I'm not bothered about its always a mess any way! lol!
So putting your hair up shouldn't mean your ugly, cos I'm sure you're lovely, every guy has their own opinion, some like it up some like it down. Just try to be confident with who you are and at the end of the day its what you think that counts!
Well, lots of things that are comfortable are ugly. Beautiful things are usually uncomfortable. Look at fancy dresses, for example. They're often extremely uncomfortable. You could just wear some ugly old sweatpants, which are comfortable, but extremely unattractive.
i do whatever I feel that day (a ponytail,long curls,up do,ect)because if a guy likes you he should like you for who you are no matter what you do with you hair cause its your personality that's going to be the winner and keep them around(for ex.no matter how much I ignore,get mad or act towards my guyfriends they don't want to lose me because I'm sweet and caring girl).
Or you can be yourself and do whatever is comfortable to you. You do not need another person to validate your looks. If a guy likes you for you, who cares if your hair is tied up or not. Tell him to get lost if he actually tells you that you look ugly with your hair tied up.