Good looking girls are usually swarmed with guys from all walks of life, but is it the same for good looking guys? Girls, when you see, work with, or know a guy that is good looking, do you feel uncomfortable talking to them because they are so good-looking. The reason I ask is because over time I have been told that I am really good-looking. However, whenever I am in a situation whether it be at school, a social event, or at work, just about all of the girls seem a little standoffish towards me (except more mature woman who are married or whatever and clearly have no agenda as far as other men). For instance, at the business where I work there are a lot of attractive girls (mainly receptionists) that a lot of the young guys there like to flirt with. I am quite reserved and formal at work, so I don't tend to flirt with anyone there. Don't get me wrong, when I see them and they make eye contact with me I will say something like "Hi, how are ya" and continue on my way (just normal behavior between anyone). But, some of the middle-aged woman that work there are always saying things to me like "oh your so cute" and like to get a little 'touchy feely" (even some of the guys do too. ew), but the girls my age don't do that at all. I am also fairly reserved in school and in most social situations.
Am I intimidating to girls? I want to know because I don't know why girls don't pay much attention to me.
ps. I'm not posting a pic just in case there are people on here that know me :) Thanks a lot and happy commenting!
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I am very intimidated by a gorgeous guy and I have never, ever approached a hot guy. Generally speaking, in my experience, most of the hot guys go for the beautiful, trophy girls (I am NOT saying all hot guys). I do not consider myself a trophy girl, I am just an average looking female. Therefore, I am not willing to risk guaranteed rejection but approaching a hottie.
I agree with the previous post that you need to have positve body language. If you appear closed off to females then they will respond negatively to the vibes you give off. Try to make eye contact and flash a nice smile when you see a girl. Say, "Hi" and make yourself appear friendly and approachable. Obviously, based on the feedback you receive from females, you are an attractive guy. Now, all you have to do his capitalize on that and put off some good vibes.
Best of luck.2