I like them, and I've always had some, since I was very young. I think they're classic, and anyone, from almost anywhere on the style spectrum can pull them off. They come in tons of different styles, and can be altered in a variety of ways.
Personally, I like them a little bit less when they look brand new, or when someone has like a million pairs and keeps them all immaculately clean. Chucks take wear and tear VERY nicely, and still manage to last f.ucking forever. I still haven't retired the black and white pair I got eight years ago, when I was 13. They're only just hanging on by a thread, and I can only wear them when it's dry as a bone outside. But I'm keeping them until they're completely unwearable, haha.
Why do you care what girls think about converse? If you like them then wear them. Its better to be yourself to attract the right than to be something you're not and attract the wrong girl for you.
But to answer your question, it depends on which ones you're talking about. I think they're classic and comfy but I use to wear some in my "punk" days that definitely looked punk. So I'm sure every clique can adjust them to fit their style.
I think I have a weird attraction to boys that wear Chucks. It tells me that you obviously care about what you wear, yet you like to be comfortable. The shoes seem like the type that you can wear with some nice jeans, a button down shirt and open blazzer, cute/classy/laid back. <3 love em.
Ehh I'm not a girl and I know most of you probably love them, but to be honest they're about as plain and unoriginal as you can get to me, with Vans Authentics coming close. Everybody and their mom has a pair, so when anyone looks for a shoe, they go "oh look, ill get what everyone else has". Not to mention, they are NOT as comfortable as half the shoes out there.