A story of failure, and a lesson for other guys.

[Anonymous]

This is what happened to me yesterday. Well it was a failure, but it would be nice to share it, as a lesson to other guys who want to hit on other girls in order to NOT follow my patterns. I shall also mention, this is not the first time a failure story occurs, and not the last one either, but that particular one was pretty unique.

So let’s begin.

I was outside of the subway station, waiting for some nice girl to pass by (it was noon when it happened). So after a couple of minutes a nice chick appeared. I passed in front of her to take a better look and she was awesome indeed. But she saw me since she raised her head from her phone.

Then I said to myself “Damn, now she noticed me. Not much I can do. Never mind, some other one might pass by.” So I kept some distance from her, and played some game on my phone, in order to not give any weird impressions to people around there. 10 minutes passed, and she was still there. But this time next to her, there was an old man eating his savory snack, and I’m like “Oh no, why now? I will wait for that old geezer to leave and hit on her. I will do it, I doubt she paid much attention when I passed in front of her.”

So I hid behind an elevator (the elevator was made of glass, like the one you see in the picture, so it was easy to look through it) and make a move when he leaves. Then I thought “Well, she must be waiting for someone. Why she’s here for so long?” And once the old guy left, she was still there (20 minutes or so have passed, since I’ve seen her.) so I told to myself “OK, now take your chances and do it.” But then I was starting to feel nervous so I was like “OK, OK calm down first.”. 5 minutes later she was leaving so I was like “NOW DO IT!!!”.

I followed her and I saw her kissing a guy riding a motorbike. So I’m like “Damn, that’s who she was waiting for.”. But when they kissed, he left, so now I was like “Great. Now I will do it, I don’t care if she has a boyfriend.”. When she passed in front of me I whistled on her, but she ignored me.

Then I found out, the guy was actually trying to find a spot to park his motorbike, and he wasn’t leaving as I thought. So I stopped chasing her.

Now there’s still a question spinning on my head. Should I’ve done it once I saw her? Well even if she had a boyfriend who knows? She might not be loyal to him.

[martyfellow]

Obviously waiting for someone. In that situation, instead of hiding, be visible to her and read something by Noam Chomsky. If she's not loyal to her boyfriend, Chonsky will work, since she's clearly well educated.

But let her make the move! Silly to go after someone just as their by arrives.

[Pacificblue62]

You find chicks in relationship attractive? I don't. Don't care how hot she is if she isn't single I don't want anything to do with her

[Prettygurl12]

So... you stalked a girl and are now obsessing over her and have so little respect for her that you're willing to assume her relationship isn't serious?

Lesson to guys: Don't be like this one.

[myTake Owner]

It's three months ago, I don't even remember her how she looks.

[Rossina16]

How you no what you want in girl?

[Viperkiss]

A guy who has such trouble just talking to a chick should probably not waist his time on someone he knows is taken.

[soupfairy]

i mean if you dont mind getting slugged occasionally