3 Ways To Get A Girl's Attention!

[luvme56]

Hey...guys! So i have decided to share some of my attention grabbing secrets! Lets start!

1. Eye contact

The first time you see a girl and you find her cute! Just keep glancing at her...and this will make her look at you;when she catches you doing that..just look into her eyes and smile to her! Then break away! This will freak her out!

2. Your Attitude

When she is around you, just ignore her presence! Act the way you always do! If you are reading a novel or something and she shows up! You dont greet her or anything just look at her once and continue doing what you were doing! This makes her think that she can't grab your attention...but you smartypants already got her's!

3. Dont talk too much!

This is definitely helpful! When you see her just dont start a conversation! But when everyone is discussing...just say the smartest possible line! And when you talk to her just...umm..keep the convo short and use some of your best wits in that! "Like people around are discussing about news channels...and someone asks you that when do you see the news just...say untill i dont get the tv remote!"

Hope you guys enjoyed reading it! !

PS:- This is not for getting a girl to like you but just to get her attention.

[performerwannabe]

Here's a 4th way to you guys because I love you and I don't want you to get laughed at. Talk to her. Find some things you guys have in common and keep going. Girls prefer men to be straight and honest... I don't think enough girls would pay attention to a guy that just glanced at them once and then just ignored them. #Nohate

[luvme56]

Well this is how i live! :) and i never had crush on anyone yet... but i dont know why... without trying i have found out that 5-6 girls have a crush on me! So anyways... thanks for being polite! :)

[performerwannabe]

If you do, don't go your way because she won't be that much impressed..

[luvme56]

Okay... but i can't change its kinda me!

[performerwannabe]

You're still young. You won't even notice it. :)

[luvme56]

Thanks...

[performerwannabe]

you're welcome.

[JaneMane]

Psychopaths exists too, these signs seems like something someone with no empathy & the whole 9 yards would do. No offence.

[Luvme66]

@JaneMane jane hiii... the thing is i wrote this my take when i was 15... and who isn't dumb at 15... i read it again... and it feels like bullshit hahaah

[RandomStudent]

So stare at her, and don't talk to her... I should have girls lining up at my doorstep by now.

[luvme56]

Smile too!

[rocksongwriter]

1. “This will freak her out!”

Yes, because freaking her out is the goal. Wait, I thought NOT freaking her out and getting her to go on a date with me was the goal. Was I wrong all along?

2. “When she is around you, just ignore her presence!”

This is brilliant. While you ignore your dream girl’s presence, I can swoop in and actually strike up a conversation with her and build rapport and get her phone number. I like this plan!

Sarcasm aside, let’s imagine two scenarios. Guys, let’s see how well this 'ignoring presence' strategy works on *you* if genders are reversed…

SCENARIO 1:
It’s summer and you arrive at the pool and you sit down in a pool chair next to... Yvonne Strahovski! And you notice she’s even better looking in real life than on t. v. or in the movies!

She’s laying out and reading a novel. She doesn’t greet you or anything, she just looks at you once and continues doing what she was doing.

SCENARIO 2:
You arrive at the pool and you sit down in a pool chair next to Yvonne Strahovski! As you sit down she turns to you and says “Hi! I’m Yvonne. What’s your name?”

Which scenario would you want?

Ignoring a girl’s presence is an excellent way – to communicate that you’re not interested in her. Some guys try to act all hard and be a challenge and hard to get. There may be a little something to that…at least in that you are not acting desperate/needy/clingy when you distance yourself. But I think completely ignoring her is too extreme. Find the middle ground. Don’t be desperate, but do be approachable. Do you think your dad won over your mom by ignoring her? No!

3. “Don’t talk too much!”

I actually agree with this one.

What do you think of my overall analysis? Ladies, am I right?

[luvme56]

Dude... its about attention... not to get her to like you!

Scenario you described.. There we actually switched roles... which however is beyond the scope of this take... it about male's behaviour!

And the second part is all about being yourself! If you try to think! If you try thinkin of her... and stop doing what you doin it would just boost her ego not get you her attention!

[luvme56]

It would freak her out in a good way! It is simple eye contact!

[luvme56]

If this much is not enough! Then read this..

www.seductionscience.com/.../

[rocksongwriter]

“Dude... it’s about attention... not to get her to like you!”

Why would I want her attention if she doesn’t like me?

“…and stop doing what you doing, it would just boost her ego not get you her attention!”

I once read (I don’t remember where) the following:

“We don’t fall in love with people – we fall in love with the way people make us feel.”

…which is why I could have a co-worker who is a Natalie Portman look-alike, but if that co-worker makes me feel bad inside (for example maybe she put me down), then I’m not going to like her. So maybe boosting a girl’s ego would be good – she’d feel better about herself and want to be around me more BECAUSE I make her feel good. Now, some girls have egos that are too inflated, I’ll grant you that. And boosting their ego further is not a good idea. But given their shallow character, why would you want to be around such a girl?

[rocksongwriter]

Here’s a great idea I read awhile back that I want you to try it at school. Whenever you pass an attractive girl in the hallway, as you pass by her, look her in the eyes, smile, and say “hi”. That’s it. Especially if she’s by herself and you’re by yourself (if she’s with 14 friends it may be kinda awkward). After doing this several times you can advance things by asking her a question, or commenting on a bracelet she’s wearing, or whatever.

Example:

First 5-10 times…
YOU: “Hi.”
HER: “Hi.”

Then, after building this mini-rapport, you one day catch her standing by herself in the school library…

YOU: “Hi. I’ve seen you around but I don’t think we’ve officially met. I’m [your name].”
HER: “Yeah, I’ve definitely seen you around. I’m [her name]. Nice to meet you.”

Then, whenever you see her in the hallway…
YOU: “Hi, [her name]!”

[rocksongwriter]

(!) Idea -- Maybe you could try what I just said when you’re around 5 specific girls (let’s call them A, B, C, D, & E), and try your “ignoring presence” strategy with another 5 girls (let’s call them (F, G, H, I, & J). It’ll be an experiment. Do this experiment for the next three years and see where you are come graduation time. You say it’s about attention - see which girls pay more attention to you during your senior year (after you’re several years into the experiment), girls A through E or girls F through J.

[LittleSally]

1. - true, you get her attention, but after a while you just start bothering her and she'll try to find a spot where you can't see her anymore xD

2. - ignoring her - only if she's 18 or younger... or someone who's a masochist (or if she's so used to guys always fawning over her that that would be something different - but remember not all hot girls get hit on - not at all...)

3. - true. But if she's not that big of a talker either (more of a listener) the conversation will get awkward and she won't be able to wait to get outta there...

Those are generalizations you can't make. It depends on the personality of the girl you want to chase after. And you won't know any of it until you actually meet her.

[luvme56]

Well me being a teenager... i would only know about teen girls (they are mostly immature)... so for them i guess this works well... i have tried!

[LittleSally]

Yep, yep, I get it.
But still, the shy girls would never go for this...

[luvme56]

Well they did... there is a shy girl in my class and she actually after 4 months sat really close to me and made herself soooo... obvious that she wanted to talk! Lol

Actually the above take is actually the way i live my life lol! :)

[LittleSally]

Haha If she sat next to you, I doubt she can be categorized as shy. xD

[luvme56]

She doesn't... talk to anyone! She never talks to a guy! I am 110% she is shy lol! :)

[CincinnatiRedsfan]

Actually, this is one of few dating tips I think is true, even for adult females.

[lumos]

Ehhh, no. If a guy did that to me, I would make a subconscious mental note that he's not interested, and then I basically wouldn't pay any further attention to him at all. The type of girl who falls for games like this is the kind that seeks attention from literally EVERYONE, which is why she might notice that he's not giving her any attention. But if a guy barely gave me any attention, I wouldn't even notice him. I wouldn't notice that he's not giving me attention, because I wouldn't even see him in the first place. If you go out of your way to make yourself invisible and to give people as little attention as possible, don't be surprised when they actually don't notice you, or care about you.

[luvme56]

Welll ok... The #2 is actually to get guys being themselves! Because of the famous line "just be yourself"...

And doesn't #1 make you think he is interested! Why are you guys giving the #2 more importance? :(

[lumos]

"Just be yourself"? What if a guy is being himself when he says hi to a girl when she walks into the room? Or what if he's being himself by putting down his novel and striking a conversation with her? Then you're essentially telling him to NOT be himself by acting aloof and as if that girl doesn't even exist. And like I said, you would be going out of your way to ignore her just to "grab her attention"... that's not being yourself, that's playing childish games.
I don't know if #1 makes me think he's interested, that completely depends on how well we know each other. And besides, #1 and #2/3 are CONFLICTING each other. You're sending out mixed messages. One minute you're making a lot of eye contact and smiling, and the next you're ignoring her and pretending that she barely even exists to you? That's really annoying, and I would definitely forget a guy if he did something like that to me. Super childish.

[Star_Lord]

@lumos , Hey why I always feel you insecure?

[lumos]

@Ran1990 uh, what?

[luvme56]

You are adding lots of if's...
And if you are annoyed, he got your attention!

And this take is just about getting attention (be it for a short period) not get a girl intrested or to like him!

[lumos]

Yeah wow, he got my attention for like a split second. Good job. He'd also get my attention if he walked up to me and actually tried talking to me. Then he'd get my attention for several minutes! Amazing.

[Star_Lord]

@lumos, Oh nothing I just mean from your words I feell you are very cautiou when you contact with people or talk with them.

[luvme56]

I know you got annoyed thinkin...

"gosh kids are immature these days, i better end this conversation... bla bla bla"

Sorry for that if you did!

[GirlScoutsRevenge]

I wouldn't bother with you at all if you did that. I'd think you weren't very interesting and that's why you don't say much when there's a conversation going on, if you ignored me when I came up to you I wouldn't bother coming up to you again.

All these things seem like silly little games. Wouldn't work with me at all.

[luvme56]

It does not apply to everyone... But anyways... saying or typing is totally different than doing!

[Izzex3]

Not a fan of the eye contact thing.
If a guy ignored my presence then that wouldn't make me interested.
I'd just ignore him too and not think twice about him.
Also I like people who talk.
Sounds like your telling guys to be cold, which I disagree with.

[luvme56]

#2 is just to catch eyes of attention grabbing women or it is another way of telling guys to be themselves... when they see you they always start acting awkward!

And i never said to ignore your presence... he looked at you once... which means you he knows you come there!

#3 is to make guy's word count!

[luvme56]

Oh... sorry... i did ! I guess i shouldn't have written that there! :(

[CincinnatiRedsfan]

Usually, I'm a skeptic when it comes to dating tips but this is actually true.

Contrary to popular belief, girls really don't like being approached. Every time I do it, I'm labeled "creepy" and they tell me to back off. I'm not just speaking from my experience either, many guys I know go through the same thing.

It doesn't seem like it makes sense but if you don't show girls you're interested, they like that better. It sucks for me because I'm a direct person.

[luvme56]

Its... just all bout tricking her! Without even talking to her!

[Misunderstood07]

This is crazy because I'm a shy guy and I've been doing these things my whole life. And I've wondered y so many females r attracted to me and approch me. But now I know it's because I glance at a female I like. Then we might lock eyes then I'll look away. but after that I pay the girl no mind. So basically they just want my attention. So they fight for it. i knew it wasn't just my looks it was my I don't give a fuck attitude. But tbh I just acted like I didn't care becase I was to shy to apporch them.

[Luvme66]

Finally someone understands the results of this take

[Anonymous]

I think this guy I am interested in does these things. He was like always around, staring, etc. But now, he's avoiding me, sometimes looking at me from far away. I don't know, maybe I just scared him off or something like that.. weird..

I don't know if these things work though.. I would think that they're not interested, like right now with my crush..

[luvme56]

Umm... attention is the topic... the intrest part is beyond the scope!

[Opinion Owner]

I know that attention's the topic, that's what I was talking about lol.. we don't know each other, so all we are trying to do is getting each othera attention etc

[Rloco]

I do that with my crush. I've only talked to her twice but she gave me really mixed signals. I don't know what to do now. Anyway I try the eye contact thing with girls my age and they always either look away or ignore me. Is looking away a bad thing? They turn away so i can't see their face.

[Opinion Owner]

It could be or not.. I usually look away when I'm not interested and when I'm too nervous: so almost always. The only way to know is to talk to her and get to know her better. Everyone's different, you can't always look for the signs..

First, find out if she's single and if she's looking for someone.

[AllThatSweetJazz]

1. Look at her until she wants to talk to you.

2. When she tries to talk to you, don't acknowledge her.

3. Only speak in group settings, when you can sound smart and further make her feel like furniture.

Got it.

[luvme56]

Ok... i guess you can explain things better than me (not a sarcasm) but... really i guess now on i need to ask you how to type! Lol!

[AllThatSweetJazz]

I'll concede that you're using English , but for the life of me I can't decipher an unequivocal meaning from that sentence...

[DarkHumorRUs]

Note: if you continue this for weeks and she never talks to you, then stop being a pussy and go talk to her.

Yeah, I've rarely been able to test this but the new girl at work talks to me all the time because I ignore her a lot. I mean, now that I know her a bit better I'm starting to pay more attention to her but sure I guess this Take works.

[Luvme66]

The idea is all about being mysterious!

[PsyNoodles]

Man you are fucking SPOT ON with this take! The first one is what I have been doing since I was in high school haha. I'll be talking to myelf in my head like when I glance here or there, thinking "please look.. please look!" haha. And then if I can get her attention with eye contact I like to smile but also sometimes wave being friendly <3

[Luvme66]

Well i am in highschool still! Lol

[KLTheErudite7229]

That sure is a way to get girls attention in a way that creeps her out.

[luvme56]

Its about getting attention... it depends upon you!

[KLTheErudite7229]

Good attention or bad attention? It's up to you really, you're 15 and you have time to think. :)

[luvme56]

It can be good or bad... it's all about the way you do it... if girls already know that you are a jerk, selfish person, or somebody infamous they won't care about you anyway!

:)

[KLTheErudite7229]

Good conclusion.

[luvme56]

Thanks!

[Honey7]

the ugly truth behind all these tips and websites and experts of dating.. they don't told us the first condition to get girls which is "you have to be good looking - dressing well and have eatiful face"

i you do all the steps but you don't have that condition just do't try

[Luvme66]

I agree with... u... if we can't care about ourself how could anyone expect from us to care for them!

[ThisGuy42]

Nah. That has never worked for me. You can't get someones attention by ignoring them. If you stare at someone like that they laugh about it with there friends and and take pictures of you. And make you look like a creep. And if you dont talk then that just makes them lose interest.

[ChebMami]

That's because you're 13 and have a Link avatar

[ThisGuy42]

Well I'm 14... And the guy who pit this up is only 15 so... I don't see your point. And Link is awesome. And my avatar has nothing to do with girls in real life. :-)

[Luvme66]

Dude there is a difference between being lame and myaterious!

[ThisGuy42]

What do you mean @Luvme66

[Luvme66]

Dude... all i suggest is to google! "do girls like mysterious guys!" you will get you answers!

[I_M_LEGEND]

here's my 3 that has worked for me

1. workout and get swole

2. attitude and vibe comes from being at peace with your conscience, live well!

3. dress with fashion in mind

[luvme56]

Hmm.. thats what i do too! But i guess this was the major factor that gets people attention!

[PhiOmega]

I ignore a lot of immature girls i don't like,

I'd say yea it works, either that or they just don't understand i don't want anything to do with them

But, those aren't the girls i care about, just the majority of one's i run into

[PhiOmega]

I don't know if i have 3 rules, or i do, but they're for chicks i like, sweet beautiful women (not the salty stuck up chicks)

I don't know if i could even call it rules tho, just... show her a little attention, smile, it's ok to be glad to see her

If any of the above gives her fatigue, or she can't bother to respond /is rude

I accidentally mistook a salty b! tch for a sweet chick #Swerve

[luvme56]

Well... i think this take is useless for you! This take is just for guys who want attention! Sorry dude!

[HappyToBeAlive]

Whats the point of being around people if you're just going to ignore them. These silly tricks DO NOT FUCKING WORK. Stop posting stupid things like this. Be a nice person who is just enjoyable to be around. There isn't some sort of button or a cheat code that you can use to get a girl. Brains are too complicated to understand as it is and if you combine that with ovaries and estrogen, you get something more complex than a fucking quantum computer on adderall. Just stop!

[zagor]

But if you are an exceptionally attractive male (like top 2%) then they will definitely work. But then so will standing on the street corner picking your nose.

[Luvme66]

Agreed... BUT being lame and mysterious has a difference!

[Meee97]

Hmmm... Well, it wouldn't work for me... I'm a shy person, so i'd go for someone, who's chatty and willing to join in conversation... Besides, if the guy wouldn't seem interested, I wouldn't bother the interest in him

[dthdhdghadh]

You should probably add, that when you talk, to make your words count.

[luvme56]

Yup... i couldnt find that word!

[Anonymous]

Break her smartphone / get close to say sorry / give a heavy smooch to her and start running and she will follow you, do it with bunch of girls and you will have more girls following you.

[luvme56]

Gr8 hope you try it yourself!

[Opinion Owner]

Lol every guy knows such takes, it's basics and change according to people and their relationship status

[luvme56]

What about a 13 year old guy who doesn't know how to masturbate?