Why is it so hard to get a hot busty girlfriend?

[Anonymous]

I'm perfectly able to act all gentlemanly and dandy, so if you think its my attitude, that should be of no concern. I'm a quite friendly guy.
But I really want a hot girlfriend, one with a slim waist, big bust (D-cup or bigger would do fine) a nice ass and don't use much makeup.
Why do I have to be cursed by ending up friend-zoned by them? Its so unfair that beeing a badboy is not in my blood, I would love to be more than friends with one!

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+1 y

It looks like I might have portrayed myself a bit too shallow. I act nice because I am a nice guy. I allways gives a friendly hello to eldry, and I like to help others.
I am not ugly, thank you.
Of course personality matters too, I want a smart girl who loves me for who I am and I can love for who she is.

[nalaa]

Why do I have to be cursed by ending up friend-zoned by them? -- well probably because you don't live up to your own expectations. I don't mean that you should be busty, but a girl like you described is probably want a guy that is equally attractive and you're not.
The difference between wanting to date someone and wanting to be friends is sexual attraction. That's what it boils down to. That's what you're lacking. It's not about being a bad boy, if she says "let's just be friends" it's another way of saying, I like your personality but I don't like your looks

I didn't mean to sound mean here, but then again you don't come across as nice either

[Asker]

You might be onto something, except the part where I don't come across as nice. IRL I'm a very nice guy.

But yeah, if I'm gonna honest, some might think I'm not perfect in the look department, but I expect my future girlfriend to like me as I am. Thats a part of beeing a couple.

[nalaa]

"I expect my future girlfriend to like me as I am" and yet you won't like her the way she is unless she is skinny with a tiny, waist, big chest and boobs. Which are very rare traits and purley genetic, you won't like her the way she is unless she won the genetic lottery. But you expect better from her.
That's your problem, you expect more than you can provide. You'll always be alone if continue like this

[Asker]

Alright maybe I would like more than I can provide when it comes to looks.

A guy can dream, I could possibly have little to no problem if her boobs are slightly smaller or she don't have super slim waist as long as she is not fat. (No I am not fat myself) But I would love to have a drop dead gorgeous girlfriend.

And I can promise her a loyal, loving and caring boyfriend, and maybe a proposal.

[nalaa]

look if you want much more than you're worth and won't back out on that, don't go around compplaining, you can't get a girl. It's your own fault

[kaylaS91]

Because thinking that simply displaying basic human decency is enough to entitle you to be extremely picky and choosy when it comes to landing a girlfriend who, from a purely physical perspective, would satisfy only your sexual needs, is nothing more than a fantasy. Regardless of whether they have huge tits/ass, a small wast, etc., all girls are human. With feelings. With a personalty. Who you must approach and get to know on an emotional/mental level before you pull your dick out and start acting like a spoiled child at a candy store.

[Asker]

That goes without saying. Ofcourse I don't approach them with "Hi babe, I would like to have sex with you." I introduce myself, let her introduce herself and then tries to se if we have something incommon to talk about. If not, I can allways have conversations about books, movies etc.

[kaylaS91]

okay well.. 'hot busty girls' are not a species any different than other girls. They have every right to turn you down, regardless of how badly you may want to motorboat them or whatever, especially seeing as how I'd imagine they have to deal with a lot more creeps than most.

[TheresaH]

Your expectations are too high. Like them for their personality first, do not have a whole set of expectations to have a girlfriend, otherwise none of them will like you. Be yourself, we can tell when you are faking, and date anyone you like whether they have a 40 inch waist or not, A DD cup or an AA. I am sure that you will find a nice girl who likes you as well if you lay back and look around, don't narrow it down to a list. A woman (or any person in general) is more than that.

[Anonymous]

they tell you bs. many pervs are players and fuck 10s all the time. ist not some subtle superppower of women its just that you are an undesirable creep, not a desirable one.

[Opinion Owner]

Jennyg123 whats wrong with pervs? what makes you "normal"?

[Opinion Owner]

women objectify men much worse. we are a meatstick for them. if yuo only hear the perveted discussions they have in toilets when "freshing up" ... you'll puke... .

[Opinion Owner]

its not that you are a perv though. women are bigger pervs

[snowangle]

Lol exactly how many ladies' bathrooms have you eavesdropped in?

[Alex88F]

cos you're after the tits and not really after the girl and girls can sense it

[snowangle]

Yes. And busty girls probably want to know that their man would stay with them if they ever got a breast reduction (because you may not know this, Asker, but having huge boobs on a small frame KILLS their backs).

[Alex88F]

@snowangle my aunt got her boobs reducted for this reason - but my uncle didn't care at all. He joked about it "eh i never been interested that much in boobs anyway. We had so much that we could even throw away some of em a little, lol" and after taht, my aunt slapped him, but it was an handful of love. lol

[snowangle]

That is so cute hahaha

[Alex88F]

@snowangle ;) yes it is

[Anonymous]

Could be because:
- You're shallow and you pine for this 'perfect woman' without much look into their personality.
- You're uggo and they're not attracted to you
- They don't want a relationship anyway

Don't take offense by any of these, just listing some potential reasons.

[Asker]

No offense taken.
But I must insist I'm neither shallow or "uggo" but they might not be interested in relationships.

[Jennyg123]

Pervs aren't relationship material. Girls with big boobs and curvy bodies are used to being hit on by guys who just want them because of their physical attributes and its irritating as hell to deal with. Its pretty obvious and can really make a girl not want to date because it makes it seems like there's only pervs and creeps who are interested.

[Smmyskittles]

I'll get you a hot busty woman if you get me a man like:

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[Anonymous]

Because slim girls with naturally large breasts aren't that common, since low body fat and breasts don't often go together.

[sp33d]

You don't want a girlfriend, you want a trophy and possibly want to get laid, that's it.
You can act all you want, if act is all you got, you're fucked and not in the good sense of the word.

[Elarra]

Maybe you're not a hot boyfriend, ever think of that?

[GreatnessBack]

Have to you tried being sexual with these girls?
Just being friendly doesn't get you the pussy, you have to ask, "wanna fuck?"

[runchickenrun]

I don't know sorry, do you ask why they friend zone? Might help for the future

[snowangle]

You have your standards and they have theirs.

[Anonymous]

Cause the guys that have hot girlfriends don let them selves get friend zoned, I fucked my girlfriend the third time we hung out

[snowangle]

I'm sure she had something to do with you sleeping together so soon lol, don't take all the credit.

[Opinion Owner]

@snowangle yeah she did, but I didn't let her friend zone me either

[Bandit74]

Lift weights