"being one of the boys" TURN OFF?

[Anonymous]

soooo I'm not a tomboy or anything I'm a real girly girl on the outside but on the inside I'm like one of the boys. when I'm talking to my guy friends we talk about ufc, dirt biking, four wheeling, wrestling and stuff like that.

do you guys find that unattractive?

[blue-kev]

Actualy guys like both but for different reasons. The tom boy girl is actualy a sexual turn on. As long as she isn't to messy. A girl who plays sports and works on a car with a wrench. Yea it makes you think the sex would be great. And conversation is easier friendship is easier. Downside is romance is harder because the feminin women usualy trigger a guy into romantic mode. But with no girl to get a guy into romantic mode his romantic side will stay dormant like a volcano that been asleep for centuries. With the girly girls there is huge potential for picknics, romance and other stuff. But the down side is they are so different from guys conversation is more difficult. We guys arnt as into shopping as them, and they can be so girly that guys don't know how to win them over. Think of gosip girls and sex in the city. It becomes a land mine for guys. Very tough. So with you it might be a guys dream. When you meet a guy don't be afraid to show him both sides. physicaly dress like a girly girl. But when you talk show them your tom boy side.talk abut wrestling all that stuff. Remember men are different from girls we don't have an issue with going from your friend to your boyfriend. That's more of an issue with some women. After all this tom boy talk the guy is going to whant sex. But that's cause you are triggering his animal side with your aggresion. Then when you are ready to move to romance show your romantic girly side. As long as you don't do both in the same day guys will like it. You will trigger the romantic part of his brain and then he will want to hold your hand and watch romance movies. Guys actualy have troubledoing romance and sexuality at the same time. So you changing it up on different days will be great to get both sides of the guy. Just don't change in the same day and don't do it to confuse him. But you seem like you would be the perfect girl. No hi maintence great conversation great sexuality, and the potential for romance all in one package. That's awsome.

[Wolverine]

You have the right mixture. As long as you the type of girl that any guy should want to date, as you are balanced/have both sides of the coin. But, of course, you might find a guy who is jealous that you're more into certain supposedly male-oriented things than he is (and you should probably stay away from that one).

[Afrodite101]

I think its the right mixture, I m a bit of a tomboy when I'm hanging with they guys I'm the only girl of three brothers and I love manly men and hanging with them. I know what you mean because I have had that affect before like why not me. But you have to show them that your still a lady, like if I go 4X4 I have a great time talking shit but I'm totally scaired of bugs so as down as I can be there like ooh yeah she's still a lady she's scaired of bugs hahahaha. I dress VERY girly and am into purses and shoes and clothes but I will still go down to the farm and move hay for my horses. The right guy for you will love and see that in you, my man is attracted to girl with brothers, when he told me I was like what? be he explained it as, were perfect relationship material easy to talk to, fun to be around, down for whatever, less pressure and we don't get into the high matnience catergory. I would say just own your sexuality! start wearing low cut shirts and skirts when you play pool with them little things like that and your gonna find a GREAT ONE

[farmhand99]

I find it atractive

if your gonna hang with me you better know your way around a farm(esentilaly you have to be very phisical and know how to drive stickshift etc)

so that's pretty much it

[glowboy]

no I like it. I can relate to them more and do more since we like the same stuff : P