Guy, What do you think of a girl who approaches you first?

[LimeGreenJB]

What do you think of a girl who approaches you first? do you like it or hate it?

Like it?

Hate it?

[Anonymous]

I think guys say they love it but they are picturing some girl they find hot coming to them instead of them having to go snag her themselves. they aren't talking about just a normal girl coming up to talk to them and asking them out I think a lot of guys would be turned off by that personally. kinda like a hunter being like "omg yeah if a big buck walked up in the yard and gave himself up me that'd be AWESOME but if it was just a little female ehhh wouldn't be that great" but the truth is he really wants to hunt that buck down and earn it.

[jkjk123]

yeah, they clearly don't like it if an average looking girl comes up to them, even asking them for directions or something...they'd be pleased if a pretty girl approached them first. but if you're average/below, chances are they will respond, but not too eagerly

[jkjk123]

so if you're avg looking girl and think of approaching guys first, many guys won't welcome it, and your ego will probably plummet.

if you're average looking, wait for the guys to come to you first. if ever.

[jkjk123]

my advice for average looking girls/women: guys don't really "Welcome" anything from non-pretty girls. they will mostly likely respond out of politeness, but he will clearly be forcing himself.

so you should ultimately wait for a good guy to approach you first if you're average looking girl.

unless the guy in question is giving you clear, really obvious signals that he is interested in you, then I'd say try.

[toulouse]

women do it all the time. it shouldn't matter. of a guy hat ed it, I wouldn't want to be with him, I don't see why anyone would want a guy that was bigoted. . its undignified. as h you need permission to go after what you want,

[TheGodEmperorLeto]

All the time? Science says otherwise -_q

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[toulouse]

if you have something to say, say it. don't hide behind a link. for any one link I can find 100 apposing links, we'll be here all day.

idk if you implying I don't know myself- I do,. 'ALL the time'. I know what my ethics., People who don't respect me, don't get to be with me.

if you mean I don't understand men 'all the time' Inverse is always true as well Guys who don't respect me, don't get me. I don't care what kind of impact you think the flinstones had on history. respect is #1. NON negotiable.

[ElijahCynicism]

I think about how I'm gonna F*** her.

But... To understand that, and why it differentiates from thinking of her purely in terms of sex, you'd have to understand the why's of that in context - which is a very very very long story and you won't hear why. So, I'll just say its because I pose the question 'To what end?' on all matters, have a pleasant hedonistic imagination and a promiscuous hedonistic lifestyle, EY.

But its a good thing, and you should do it.

[DonMichelle]

Takes a lot of the edge off, good to know her guard's down, makes thing flpw better BUT she has to play the game, can't be too open, a girl you've been given doesn't satisfy like one you've had to work a bit for

[sweettangel]

i like your answer could you take a look at my question pleasee (:

[toulouse]

Doesnt work for guys who are not players. They assume she is playing THEEM- not playing WITH them..Also a woman who respects herself, respects her time. She likely will not want to mess around for too long- she has better things to do.

I think, perhaps you should 'elaborate' on what you mean by 'too open' ;-)

[psalais]

I'm a very outgoing person, but have always been shy at the beginning, so approaching a woman is difficult for me sometimes (unless I have liquid courage). So for a woman to approach me is more than welcome because it takes the edge off.

[LimeGreenJB]

good old liquid courgae XD its very helpful sometimes

[TheGodEmperorLeto]

Love it. All guys do. They might be confused and awestruck at first, but every guy loves it. But it's so rare we're just dumbfounded when it happens. Your gender makes me sad when it comes to initiating things :\

[WeaponZero]

it puts her on a whole other level above other women.

[doug38]

You should not have to. if you do it is OK just be aware they may think easy score. have fun don't do any thing stupid to impress him IE get drunk, get hi, sex or?

[toulouse]

youre an idiot.

[labbie87]

I like your answer doug38!

as for ms toulouse...can I punch you in the face? kcool

[DonMichelle]

Labbie87... how dare you speak badly of Toulouse, she's right!

[TheGodEmperorLeto]

Should not have to? How f***ing stupid is it that men have to keep doing ALL the work to initiate a date or relationship? Shit needs to stop. They wanted equality, they can actually bring it.

[Whipporwill]

Life would be some much easier, if those cute girls would just approach us and ask for our numbers!

[Snar87]

I wouldn't mind if she's attractive and don't have kids. However, it may cause a disturbance in time and space.

[mike5150]

What do I think? I think that would be the greatest :D. I doubt you would find many guys who wouldn't like it

[Phoenix1991]

i wouldn't hate it or mind it, if she's attractive then ill respond and talk back.

[Musical546]

haha. I'd be much more willing to go out with that kinda girl =P. so ITS GOOD!

[Anonymous]

Considering I've never had it happen to me nor have I ever seen it happen, it would be pretty cool.

[Anonymous]

Guys voted 23 like it to 0 hate its. What does that tell you? :)

[MaxAsian9]

I think it takes lots of confidence to approach a guy they like. Love it!

[THAT-1-guy]

I actually kinda like it

[SmoothBlue17]

love it! shows her confidence..

[Anonymous]

they would love it. you did the work for theem

[TheGodEmperorLeto]

More like we're amazed there's a woman out there who's finally willing to equalize the dating world and flattered we're approached for once. That rarely happens for guys. Specially average ones. Maybe the models are approached frequently, but average guy to average girl? Obviously the average guy almost never gets approached.

[moviedude714]

love it